there's this guy at my school (we're in a catholic highschool) who i used to have a really big crush on. he found out, and everytime he walked past me he would touch my butt and act like it wasn;t him. it got to the point of being really weird, so i started ignoring him. i told him to stop every time, completely seriously. today i was walking down the hall to go to the bathroom, and he came and pushed me in a closet with him. i was pounding of the door and on him to let me out, yelling and yelling but no one came and he wouldn't let me out. then right then and there, he started taking his pants off and touching himself in front of me. everytime he tried to touch me i would hit him really hard, so he gave up that. he just did that the whole time, jacked off in front of me. and then he was done, and he let me out.
i don't know how i'm going to explain this to anyone if i try to report him, it's just so weird
is there any hotlines i could call?
i feel sick and disgusted.
2006-09-14 11:39:48 · 36 answers · asked by jenny lou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is very serious. He could wind up raping you. How would you like to explain that. Don't worry about losing cool points with your friends or anyone else. You have to take action now. The first thing you should do is notify your parents, school officials and the police. What he did constitutes sexual assault. I am telling you right now, it is not going to go away. It will get worse before it gets better. Realize that you are not at fault and are not to blame for this jackasses perverted behavior. By reporting this creep now you will be saving yourself from further aggrevation in the future. You may even be saving your life. I will say a special prayer for you. Peace and God bless.
2006-09-14 11:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off I just want to say that I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. Seriously you need to report him! You need to go to your parents, the principal, and file a police report on him. What he did to you was wrong and you need to show him that you're not going to let him to that to you and just get away with it. Just because he found out that you like him does not give him the right to do what he did. Be strong and do what you feel you need to do. If you take it to the police make sure that you tell them exactly what happened and be strong because the accusations are serious, but the perv needs to suffer the consequences. If you don't do anything then he may think that he can get away with it again. But everyone is here for you and there are hotlines that you can call. You can even look some up. But tell someone because you don't want to let you feelings pile up. It's obvious that you're both disgusted and hurt, but telling someone about it can make you feel a lot better about it.
2006-09-14 11:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by The ChoColate Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That guy is a real jerk!
He sexually assaulted you, and you have every right to go to the police, should you choose.
If there is anybody, preferably an adult, in your family (Mom? Dad? Older sibling?) or at your school (Teacher? Principal? Guidance Counselor?) that you trust, I suggest go to them first, and tell them what you just told us here. If it is too difficult for you to talk about it, write it down (or print out what you've just typed) and give it to a trusted adult who can help keep you safe from this jerk.
BTW, I'm proud of you for hitting him. Another girl, or maybe even a grown woman, may have been too scared to and then much worse things could have happened.
2006-09-14 11:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by cleopatra2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only hotline you need right now is to go to your parents and have this matter taken care of immediately. You don't know what will happen the next time. You need to let someone know like your parent the school someone and they can get you the proper help you need once this is all out in the opening. I know you may be spetical and afraid but don't like fear keep you from protecting yourself and doing the the right thing.Okay sweetie.
2006-09-14 11:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lesa Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you did the right thing as far as making as much noise as possible and hitting him hard to let him know you weren't going to allow him to touch you. I think you really need to talk to a counselor/principal/parent to make sure that this guy doesn't get away with what he did. I can imagine it must be terribly embarrassing and uncomfortable, but it would be so much worse to keep it to yourself. I know there are hotlines, but unfortunately I don't know where to direct you. Good luck.
2006-09-14 11:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by bitchenbrod 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not feel ashamed because you are a victim. This slimebag sexually assaulted you and you should make him pay. Tell anyone and everyone what he did. Would his public humiliation and eventual expulsion from school make you feel better? It would me, and the example you turn him into would serve as a reminder to any of his spineless friends that you are not to be trifled with. Make him pay! When you report him to the school administration, don't forget to use the magic "L" word, lawyer! They will fall all over themselves to get you some satisfaction and closure.
2006-09-14 11:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - go talk to your parents. Ask one of them to go to school with you to talk to the councilor or principal. What will probably happen is that the guy and his parents will be called in. There will be a confrontation - talk - among all parties. He will probably be suspended. You definitely need to tell your parents and school. This guy could have real problems! You are lucky! You could have been raped or beat up.
Good Luck. Stick by your guns! You will probably save another female from what you went thru - or worse!
2006-09-14 11:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry you will be ok what I would do is talk 1 on 1 with your principle and explain your situation this is not right what this guy did that is sexual harrassment and he shall be punished you can even press charges against him for harrassment but you need to do this asap because you don't want him at your school nomore. If you want to chat feel free to email me and I'll chat veronica1ramirez@yahoo.com
good luck
2006-09-14 11:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty me :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop everything and tell the teacher, there is nothing to be a shame of, just go in the office and speak slowly. Start with "I have a problem, a guy is harrassing me" then take it slowly from there. it doesn't matter even if he is the man of your dream. Cause he is hurting you, beside crush doesn't mean love, love doesn't mean you two are dating, so he can't do this to you. so report in.
2006-09-14 11:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This incident happened on School property!! you should report it.. I'm sure you are not the only girl that's been assaulted. Try the school nurse first. good luck.. speaking up can be very frightening, but someone needs to do something.
2006-09-14 11:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by tampico 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋