my boyfriend use to go with this girl name kim and she somtimes talk to him on the phone and call him and i was ok with that. but today my friend told me that kim told her that he was comming over kim's house and talking to kim on the phone at night and kim said to my friend that he told her that he dont like me anymore...kim could be lying about this but then again she could be telling the truth and if it is the truth if i ask my bf he's not going to confess ...so i wont know if its the truth or not what should i do?????plzzz helpppppp
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people keep in mind if i do ask him and he was cheating on me he's not going to admit he was cheating
how will i know if he's honest with me?
2006-09-14 11:34:08 · 16 answers · asked by becca . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can I have ten points for never cheating on a gf?
2006-09-14 11:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by knmardix 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should always trust your instincts.. if you think he is cheating then dump his a&& because he is the one that is losing you! But if you are not for sure if he is cheating or not then maybe you should ask him just to see what he tells you and if stops and thinks or says "NO" right quick then be a little suspicious about him. Maybe you should also get into a different car or something and go by this girls house to see if you see him there or going there and if he is there then you know that something is going on. You're right he isn't going to confess to doing it, but you need to catch him in the trap or you just need to dump him and find someone that isn't going to be talking to their ex and be more worried about losing you!! Good luck!
2006-09-14 11:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Honey;
Firstly, even thou you bf is telling you the truth or not; you should not listen to what KIM said.
KIM is an idiot who's trying to steal away your bf, and i belief she's also worried that he might go back to you if anything happens. So the only way, to prevent him going back to you is to add poison words into your brain, so that you'll hate him or chase him away..
Secondly, supposedly if you ask you bf if he's telling the truth about what idiot KIM said; from the way he answer you, you can roughly judge from several ways!
1. try to french kiss him first, he may tend avoid you
2. Look into he's eyes directly when he talks, if he blinks frequently or shy away;.
3. when he talks, he's words chatter..
4. trying to throw tantrom at you, as he's pretending that he's not serious with KIM or just friends.
5. look at he's body language, how he re-act; you can probably judge from he's action..
Nevertheless, but if he comes to you and explain to you the he doesn't likes you; then at least he's honest and you have to face the truth about what is happening.
But is all up to you on how to judge him. And to think whether is it worth while going out with this man; i mean; one who can be with you and still go out with another idiot KIM, is also another idiot..
Good luck to you honey..
2006-09-14 12:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what a small world girl i'm going through the same thing but it's one of my best friends!!!! Yet john told me that he liked christiana and i almost didn't belive him!!! Theres no dought he must be cheating, i'm sorry but thats what must be going on. It's though finding out that ur bf is cheating on but girls gotta do what a girls gotta do!!!
If u guys spilt just rember u have an army of girls right there!!!
Good luck
Kelse
2006-09-14 11:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kelse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probaly is cheating on you.. if he talks to her on the phone more than you then he probably is. cheating. if you want to ask him, do it. when you ask him, (if he is cheating ) then he might get nervous because you're catching up to his little plan, he'll probably stop. If you have more doubts, break up with him.
You are tooooo good for him. Never stoop to low and let some guy walk all over you like a doormat. . you are young, pretty and independent.
2006-09-14 11:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by buffychik1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to be sure, he or isn't cheating on you....
A. Video, hide a camera, if your 100% sure you wont get caught.
B. Follow him, be a private eye for a day or two.
C. Ask him straight out if he is cheating, watch his facial expressions & eyes....
D. Break up with him and let the little slut have him, he's not worth your time or aggrivation.
2006-09-14 11:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you talk to him just bring it up casually, like have you seen her often and see what he says. If you ask him if he's cheating of course he'll deny it. If you can follow him why not. If there's a trust issue it needs to be addressed.
2006-09-14 11:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U could sooo totaly tell hez cheatin but how could u let him 2alk 2 hiz ex
2006-09-14 11:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by *1 sxy lady!* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him on the time he is suppose to go to her house. Or call her at the time, or find someone who knows her to call her for you?
2006-09-14 11:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every person is different. Don't look for answers to those types of questions here. If you confront him you will look insecure and you might really offend him if he wasn't cheating.
2006-09-14 11:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋