I am with current hubby because i need him - and in love with a man that's bad for me because i love him... What should i do?
2006-09-14 11:33:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With a man - Not married. Sorry typo. But can't get ex (who i am still madly in love with) outta my head
2006-09-14 11:40:03 · update #1
Does the other man fullfill the naughty girl needs inside you? You married your husband because he is stable. Remember when you used to date. Just be careful to know the difference of madly in love and lust. Would life be better with this new man? Or you like the craziness of this relationship. Think real hard, is this what you truly want? Good luck!
2006-09-14 11:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence? You already know the other guy is not good for you... so, what will you do when he dumps you and you find yourself alone and the guy you dumped won't have you back (if he has any kind of self-respect and dignity)? You're not in love with the other guy... you're either infatuated with an idea or in lust with someone because he's right now "forbidden fruit." You may lose something good only to regret it. YOU will discover soon enough that wanting is not the same nor as good as having... and, unfortunately, it will be too late. Careful, you're bound to cause a lot of grief and heartache. Use your head to think, not your crotch!
2006-09-14 11:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I am with current hubby because i need him - and in love with a man that's bad for me because i love him... What should i do?
2015-08-23 06:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rhona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a decision you can live with, you're talking divorce you're a married woman who maybe just needs to rekindle the romance with the man you promised to be with the rest of your life, how did you have the time to fall in love? You've already cheated!
2006-09-14 11:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not giving your marriage a change, Why would you want to be with someone who is not good for you. You need to concentrate and put all your energy in making your marriage work, or not go, to the one who will end up hurting you. Have you thought of going to a marriage counselor?
2006-09-14 11:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some marriage counselling. If you say you're in love with a man that's bad for you, then you are acknowledging there's something deeper going on.
2006-09-14 11:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by ingy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, marriage is for life. No matter how bad it is. If you get divorced it will be worse. Spend valueable time with your husband and go to church and a marriage counselor to patch things up. Good luck, and I am praying for you.
2006-09-14 11:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Waiting Takes Too Long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and stop using people. If you don't love your husband, tell him so and why. As for the bad boy; you and a million other women, babe. You like shiny things, don't you?
2006-09-14 11:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not love him anymore than all your doing is using him. Get a divorce and lower yourself to his standard of living if you love him. do not think about the money.... money will not buy you happiness...I know I have plenty of money and not happy with my relationship at all!!
2006-09-14 11:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need the man(hubby) for whatever you need him for and not really loving him...girl you just using him....and that ain't right! if you love the other man...then i suggest you go for the one you love, instead of using someone.......if he bad for you then he don't deserve you....if you using the other guy....you don't deserve him!!
2006-09-14 11:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_ndn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋