Okayy,, well i rlly like him. But im a bit overweight, And all of his girlfriends that he has had were all skinny... i mean hes rlly rlly funny. and i tried talking to him on AIM which i have before but i dont talk to him much and i asked him if there was a football game today and he blocked me. But im not sure if i should tell him if i like him because hes popular but not in the preppy way and i dont wanna have him tlel his other friends and i dont want him to not wanna ever talk to me . Should i lose weigth so he likes me? I dont think he likes me because im a lil overweight.. ugh.. help?
2006-09-14 11:29:48 · 6 answers · asked by Italianladie 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
No.. im not in a health risk kinda overweight.. its just a little bit like 20 lbs. i uno i guess i rlly wanna lose the weight but do u think after i lose it he might like me? and i do have a good attitude and im a very bubbly person but i dont think he knows.. how show i try to show this?
2006-09-14 13:51:31 · update #1
No. If you are going to lose some weight is to make you feel better and not because of a guy.
What is "a lil overweight"? Does is risks your health? How do YOU feel with your onw body? Those are the two paramaters you have to check first instead of thinking of what this guy likes or dislikes.
2006-09-14 11:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by kamelåså 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the weight. Some guys (a lot of guys, actually) aren't bothered by a little extra weight, especially if it is carried "in the right places".
Do not lose some weight "so he likes you". Won't work.
This guy blocked you. Probably he's not that interested. Get over it. Move on. Find the guy out there that is interested and quit banging your head against the wall about this guy, who may not be. You could be out meeting your prince charming right now but instead you're moping over this guy.
2006-09-14 18:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO do NOT lose weight for any man or boy or for that fact anybody else but yourself. It is a health issue not a vanity issue.If you love yourself cus you are a great person inside, have a huge heart and you are kind to everyone around you. Than you are on the right track. Find someone that will love you for you not your weight.
2006-09-14 18:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by diver deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should lose weight, not because of him, but if you want to for your own betterment. look, may be right now you can lose weight for him, but if he is so shallow that he wont even talk to your because of your weigth, what happens if you decide to settle down with him and in a few years you get few more pounds again? funny can be an attractive quality but a good heart will go the distance...
2006-09-14 18:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Riad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so he blocked you. he is choosing not to speak to you. if it is due to your weight he is shallow. may be hot but shallow...really worth your time? doubtful. dont lose weight to please him. make you happy first. if it is what you wanna do for you then do it. be realistic though. dont let your weight get you down though i am a little over weight and i have a beutiful baby boy and a wonderful husband who loves me very very much and i will tell you i had a little trouble btu not much had plenty of good looking b/f's though none true love. if he has blocked you and isnt showing sighn of intrets no dont tell him you like him. just let things go. you will have many crushes just dont let them break your heart!! hope it helped a little take care.
2006-09-14 18:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by imnoangel_81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to lose weight, do it for yourself, not for some guy. If you feel comfortable in your skin as you are, more power to you and don't ever change.
If somebody is going to like you for your physical appearance only, you're in for major dissapointments. You want someone who can look straight into you and like what he finds, no matter what the package.
2006-09-14 18:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋