My boyfriend of 10 months now has told 2 of his friends that hes ready for sex. it got to my friend and they told me. i am ready too but i dont know how to tell him. HELP ME PLEASE
2006-09-14 11:21:44 · 14 answers · asked by Faith_marie_16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should refrain from it./ I don't think your ready when you come on Yahoo and ask the whole world to make up your won mind....it's not a take charge kind of thing, but what the hell, this is 2006 Girls lay in the bed more than I smoke cigarettes.,
2006-09-14 11:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had to hear it from a friend that heard it from his friends you are not ready for this step as a couple. You sound like you are a teen and let me tell you sex is NOT what being together is all about. And it is not something you talk about with his friends or your friends....it is too special and important. Not to mention all the life altering things that can come of it. Like life(babies) and death (AIDS). Sex is something you should talk to a trusted adult about before you make that decision. My advice is to wait. When the time is right and you are truly ready you won't need to think about it because it will be right and you will be prepared and protected.
2006-09-14 18:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you know what you know you are doing, first of all do you have protection? have you been to the doctor to get birth control? Why are your 2 friends involved, that is none of their business, How old are you? I hope you are ready, because you are giving away the most precious thing that God gave you, you better know what you are doing. That is something that you can"t take back.
2006-09-14 18:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're 16, you're not ready for the responsibilities that come with sex. Wait 'til you're at least 18. Then when the time is right, you'll know it.
2006-09-14 18:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! I doubt that either of you is "ready".
If you have to ask this question, then you are not very well prepared.
Do you know about birth control? About HPV, about Herpes, About the fact that if you do this. you will be giving up something you can't get back?
and that you are too young to make that decision?
All this presupposes that you are under 18.
2006-09-14 18:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Are you sure you are ready? Can you handle it if you get pregnant? It's not the child's fault.
Yeah, I know you are probably tired of hearing this - but - are you personally ready for the responsibility of sex?
2006-09-14 18:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's as nervous, no really scared about it as you are. Tell him how you really feel about things. Both of you should take things easy and cautiously. Try and get some advice about sex from someone slightly older like a school nurse or someone and make sure you're got some protections against "STD's" sexually transmitted diseases.
2006-09-14 18:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how old you are, I dont think younger kids should be having sex. But they should both be over 18....if all that applys then some time when you are making out, whisper it in his ear.
2006-09-14 18:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't talk about it it just happens. how old are you? i'd wait if you're really young. he'll probably get you pregnant and give you some sex disease then leave you. i know it's sad but it's true.
2006-09-14 18:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its all up 2 u and when the moment is right
2006-09-14 18:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋