2006-09-14 11:14:32 · 23 answers · asked by brittineyc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
marriage!
2006-09-14 11:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I just knew a Christian would see your question and tell you to wait until you are married. I am a Christian too, but what I am going to tell you is that I know you will make up your own mind anyhow. But you need to know that STDs are out there and they come with pretty faces and fine bodies too. If you do have sex, use a condom for STDs and a method of birth control to prevent pregnancy. Unprotected sex is crazy and playing Russian roulette with your life especially if. People who I have known to have unprotected sex got used bc and condoms in the beginning of the relationship and got tested in the beginning of the relationship to make sure they had no STDs from past relationships. Then, they continued using bc and condoms until another 6-8 months when they got tested again to make sure they did not transmit or receive an STD from the sexual relationships they were just in with other people before getting with each other.
Somehow I think I may know Derrick T.
2006-09-14 18:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you just meet your boyfriend you don't want to have sex with him right away! I would at least wait a month or so to see how things are going. But for me it usually never happens like that, it is in a matter of minutes and it sucks, because then i am just a booty call for him and nothing more! But i think a girl should wait to have sex with her boyfriend a little long than a week, because if you guys break up then he is just going to be calling you for sex, because he knows you are "easy"
2006-09-14 18:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to do things right? I'm thinking you do, or you wouldn't be asking... so.....
You wait until you are married. I know, SO old fashioned. But keep in mind that sex was created for a husband and wife. If you want all of the fun and all of the blessings of sex (yes, there are blessings....they are called children), then you need to wait until you are married.
Putting sex into the mix of dating only confuses you. Sex makes you THINK you love him... and later you find out that you really don't. Sex makes you ignore problems that need to be looked at and fixed. Sex makes you see the world through rose colored glasses ... for a while. Don't get me wrong... I LOVE sex, but I've seen it put into relationships and really MESS THEM UP every time. Sex is NOT a replacement for knowing and loving someone, but somehow these days, people think it is. I'm here to tell you... it isn't.
Good luck on your decision... I hope it's all good for you. Keep your brain clear, your heart free and do what you know is right. Never let anyone else pressure you into things in your relationship you know are wrong. It should be a clear message that this guy is SELFISH and does not really care for YOU.
2006-09-14 18:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as it takes for both parties to be able to cope with the responsibilities of having sex. After all - if someone gets pregnant - it's not the child's fault. Also - what about AIDS, VD, etc? Can you handle that situation?
Now - you can answer your own question!
2006-09-14 18:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When they feel comfortable with that person. U might wait a lil longer than 8 minutes. But it all depends on when you feel comfortable and ready.
2006-09-15 01:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Penny F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you're married or have a definite commitment. If you just wanna have sex, you can do it whenever you want. But if you're thinking that sex is suppose to mean anything special to a guy just by giving it up, I'd think again, if I were you.
2006-09-14 18:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are not on aclock you dont have to have sex with anyone until you feel sutre they are committed to a long term relationship in the past this was marrage now its usually moving in together but be sure befdore you do anything that you may regret and if you do have sex use the pill and condoms as infections and unplanned pregnancies are devastating to a young couple
2006-09-14 18:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by madeleine b 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should wait until you are ready, believe me you will know when you are.
It's not about what other people do or societies predetermined rules as to what is acceptable. It's your body, they are your emotions, don't ever feel like you are obliged to do anything you are not ready for...
2006-09-14 18:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by CC...x 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
At least three dates or longer if possible. Don't let him pressure you into anything. If he is doing that then all he wants is sex and you should tell him goodbye.
2006-09-14 18:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i just asked this question yesterday and we have been dating 4 6 months they all said wait untill married sept 4 the horney dudes
2006-09-14 18:17:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋