I really like this guy I work with and we went out a couple of times as friends. We were both definetly flirting but now I don't know whether to just continue playfully flirting with him or tell him that I like him. He doesn't seem as interested now as he did at first and I'm not sure if its because he has lost interest or if he thinks I don't like him (since I never tried to kiss him or anything). This week he hasn't flirted with me like he did before, but he is still being really nice.
2006-09-14 10:58:48 · 26 answers · asked by Kristie A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he wanted you in that way he would of made a move on you all ready.But if you realy want to know if you can kick up to the next level why don't you try to make the move.Hey lifes a risk.you'll never know unless you expres your feelings.
2006-09-14 11:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that flirty stuff gets confusing even to a guy with an extreme amount of confidence. At some point a guy needs to know he's moving in the right direction. Be cautious though. I see you work together and that only turns out well in a small number of cases.
2006-09-14 18:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shuld think really carefully before you do anything i had 2 workplace relationships go South and it is not a very pretty picture everything workrd out ok in the end but it was a very uncomfortable 6 months. If you think you can handle it i say go for it and tell him.
2006-09-14 18:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by l_iwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prob tell him but the I have been playfully flirting with a guy for 6 months and we are only now getting things on!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 18:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by scs005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grl u should neva ask a guy out it juz makes u seem desperate so i say flirt lyk crazy till he asks u out
2006-09-14 18:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by *1 sxy lady!* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, let a sleeping dog lay.......just leave things as they are and get back to a non-flirty relationship. It's not wise to date inside of your work environment. Godloveya!
2006-09-14 18:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
playful and flirty works best 4 me wear a shirt that shows a little boob and giggle hello y dont u know this **** if u really want him 2 know your into him grab his butt that will get his attention
2006-09-14 18:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best way to go. Tell him (not at work) that you would like to take the relationship to another level and see what he says.
2006-09-14 18:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well f u're willing 2 put the friendship that u 2 have on the line then go for it!!!! well dnt bother sweetie if he likes u enuff he''ll ask u out if nt then just 4get the whole thing
2006-09-14 18:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by J Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come out and tell him. i learned from experience playful and flirty without saying anything leds him to think your not that interested.
2006-09-14 18:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by MMTS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋