Girls always flirt with me, but i am shy and never know how to respond. Am i destined to be alone 4 life?
2006-09-14 10:57:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am in my twenties.
2006-09-14 11:03:38 · update #1
this ALL is gonna stem from how u feel about yourself. therefore, the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. the better u feel, the more confident u are.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... and that will help u in meeting women. huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-09-15 10:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like shy guys, because im kinda a shy girl... but hang in there, the right girl will come, but you may have to take a chance to find out. Work really hard to put your shyness aside for a few minutes and talk a nice girl into going somewhere with you, or just hanging out. if she says yes, your in luck! if not, she cant possibly see the real you. Just be kind to her, and you wont be alone forever! Good luck!
2006-09-14 11:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by DanceOfSnow16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop being shy girls like shy boys just not to shy. When girls flirt with you fly back but not to much that will make them want you more.Don't be afraid to be out there take it a step by step. Good luck shy boy and have fun
2006-09-14 11:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then obviously u r cute or hot or something. NO u r NOT destined to be alone! lol. simply...well react when a girl flirts. 1. dont flirt if u dont like her...thats just cruel... 2. if shes trying to give eye contact catch it and hold her gaze until she looks down and make sure u look back up at her when she looks back up at u... 3. if u guys r talking and she touches ur arm or something and u know she likes u, reach out and grab her hand gentley....stuff like that totally get girls. so yeah just basically flirt back! lol
2006-09-14 11:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to gain some experience to start to feel more comfortable. Just try talking to girls more without thinking about the future or the consequences of your discussion. Try find some self help books.
2006-09-14 11:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know man, it's a hard thing to overcome, you might be destined to be alone for life.. Sorry
2006-09-14 10:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you keep thinking that way.
If girls flirt with you, there a good chance that they only want to tease you, but also a little group can be for real.
Just ask them for their phone number of email, ask her out, and be yourself. Good luck scary baby!
2006-09-14 11:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Carlos A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.m.g i luv ur pic nd if u want im willing 2 2alk 2 u by da way how old r u
2006-09-14 10:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by *1 sxy lady!* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure you're not guna be alone for the rest of your life..just be yourself..if you have a sense of humor and a good positive attitude then you'd be confident enough and not think about what they might think...just dont be shy...
2006-09-14 11:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Natasja S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey theres nothing wrong with being shy...even tho i dont have a boyfriend because of it.. but still i know ill find someone and so will you! just keep trying little by little to come out of your shell, who knows maybe i will to....maybe! lol well i hope that i helped you
2006-09-14 11:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by music*rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋