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Question

Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now it is obvious, she doesnt want to be more than friends, but my question is, is that because she is scared( she doesnt want to ruin the frienship,) or because she just doesnt like me
Now shes only 13, I'm 15, Ive like many girls, and had many crushes, and she is just different, I like Everything about her, and just cant let her go, what should i do?

Now, I am respecting her decision, and we havent spoken about it for 3 weeks. The last thing I want to do is smother her, so I am giving her every inch of space she needs. But 3 months ago, she really really seemed to like me, than when she found out I liked her she backed off. And now she's like that with other guys. But once we talked about it, she seems more comfortable talking to me, than she did before. Her and her mom are really really close, and her mom said she is just REALLY REALLY scared. Her mom wants me to date her daughter, she told me that. So I know I am good with ther parents, what should I do??

Answer 1

She doesn't like you because shes not into you. She clearly only sees you as a friend, maybe more like a brother, than she does as boyfriend material. I would just leave her be and be yourself, she will eventually come around. You shoould probably find another girl and start dating her, it will test her. If she gets jealous you know she likes you, if she doesn't then you are SOL....

Answer 2

TRUST ME, dude...you dont want to know the answer to that question...(because of ruining the friendship or doesnt like me) just accept the fact that she gave you an answer (for now) and don't press her any further at this point! No matter how tempted you may be. The ONLY thing you can do is to CONTINUE BEING HER FRIEND. At least you'll still be involved in her life. Then, down the road (and only if you've played your cards right) something magical will happen. It'll be a day like any other, when suddenly out of the blue she'll look a you and a light goes off inside her head...and she'll think, Wow! I am comfortable with this guy, I know this guy, he's been my friend forever...and she'll ASK YOU out! Believe it, dude! I DID! AND MARRIED HIM TOO! 16 years!!!! Good luck

Answer 3

Okay, she's 13 & your 15 and I know you won't believe me, but you have your whole life ahead of you and you need friends you can hang out with and trust more than you need a girl friend right now. I have a daughter your age and even though I know she hates it I won't even let her date yet. I keep telling her that she has to trust me...I've been there done that....and when she is old enough and it is right you will find that person...it may be this wonderful girl or someone else that you haven't met yet and won't for a few years.

Your friend might be scared because she is 13....a person goes through a world of changes between the ages of 13 & 21 don't rush her or yourself.

Enjoy your time as a teen. Those years fly by way to fast and you only get one shot. Hang out with your friends, get your first job, learn how to drive a car, go to the homecomming dance with a cute girl and don't get too serious too soon. Have fun.

Answer 4

In some cases like this depending on how long yall have been friends the relationship going further would be taken into consideration by her but if she keep brining up the fact that your friends and she doesn't want to ruin that then she probably isn't all the interested in you like that and friends is what she would rather be. So to be blunt with you then she probably doesn't like you. Take it from me im 18 and have been in plenty of situations like this. Plus she's only 13 give her some time then maybe she might just come around.

Answer 5

you know what?Know why you like her so much?..Because unlike all the other girls, she has brought out the hunter in you!You know you dinhave her 100%, and man what a rush, right!You must also remember, she is only 13, you know, 3 years past 10.You are both in different seasons of life.You both have different mind sets right now.If you asked her this question,Hey, wanna go to the movies with me Friday, or are you going to go with your friends to the carnival?....She would say...friends.She's not being mean to you at all. She is still very young and wants to be carefree.But she told you the truth, and you must honor that.As for you?yes you can let her go, because if you keep after her, she will see you as a jerk. Sorry.She will get older, and so will you.He res a little hope.....Set her free and if she returns, it was meant to be...........Good luck man in waiting.
sandy

Answer 6

Honey, doesn't sound as if she's ready or interested in a relationship. At that age, they may say they want a boyfriend, but not someone who actually steps forward and acts like a boyfriend. Her mentality just isn't mature enough.

I think she's much more into the flirt and giggle stage than anything like being a girlfriend worth your own time. Be her friend and find someone your age.

Answer 7

Then be more forward about how you feel. And tell her that there is no harm in trying. She might also be TOO YOUNG AND NOT READY for a relationship. If she wants thing to stay the way they are, don't push her. An enraged female at any age is not something you want to deal with.

Answer 8

Let her go! Sometimes we want what we can't have, so that makes a more determend to get it. Except this, and you'll be able to move on. Your 15, there will be alot more girls coming your way. Good luck, buddy!

Answer 9

You know your lucky to have a true friend like her. I really believe that she respects your friendship and really doesn't want to lose that.

True friends only come by so very few times in our lifes. Girlfriends come and go.

Take the friendship and treasure it.
It will be worth it.

Answer 10

Point blank, she just doesnt like you. If friends is all she wants, friends is all you'll get, so just respect her wishes and find someone else.