2006-09-14 10:31:11 · 33 answers · asked by pOpTarT484 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me claify, i didnt say a word in this matter. i sat there listened...kinda laughed and maybe was a little turned on. but i never once told him what i wanted to do to him or moaned or anything!
2006-09-14 10:50:49 · update #1
I would say no, at least in the strictest sense. It's fantasy. It's imagination. It's not real. If it were, one would be cheating every time he/she masturbates while fantasizing about anyone else; a celebrity, an athlete, anyone else. I, personally don't believe one's inner psyche is open to another's judgement.
2006-09-14 11:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-09-14 12:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think that phone sex is a way of expressing your intimate self, discovering more about "inner" self, without the physical contact. Is it cheating - well, you ask 100 different people, you will get a lot of different answers. I do it a lot with people I know (and people I do not know) and really enjoy it! You can have fun, have an orgasm, and never leave home ~~ and (this is my opinion ~~ you have not cheated, but broadened your sexual awareness, especially since you can even act out a fantasy ~~ take advantage of it!).
2006-09-14 10:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
interesting question, from a mans point of view, no its not cheating. but if you ask my wife, she might say it is. good phone sex is like really having sex, you close your eyes and listen and tell the other person very intimate things. you see, sex is as much in your head as your body. if you are women over 35, i would love to have a conversation with you.
2006-09-14 10:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by luv78779 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From a guys point of view: No. they never touched her, they never kissed her, they never undresser her, he never put anything anywhere on her body. She just talked to him and he got himself off.. just like he would if he was watching a porn or reading a mag or something online.
From a girls point of view: Yes. there was an emotional attachement. he got something from her that he couldn't get from her. He had to go to someone else for pleasure. The bond of trust and intimacy has been broken. if he trusted the person on the phone enough to ejaculate with them there could be somethning there.
Personally.... my view is a little of both.. phonesex with a "stranger" no problem. Phonesex with someone he knows.. problem.
2006-09-14 10:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd say it isn't cheating. Cheating involves physical contact and that hasn't happened with phone sex.
Now if it was without your husband's knowledge and he'd have a problem with it if he knew, then you shouldn't do it again.
2006-09-14 11:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by ingy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my Lord, someone PLEASE give this child a helping of brains! Of course its cheating!! You are talking about sharing your fantasies of smearing naughty bits all over one another! You are being intimate with another person, rather than your lover!! Just because you are NOT going to get pregnant doesn't mean what you are doing is right!!
2006-09-14 10:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are in a committed relationship with someone, but having phone or cyber sex with someone else then yes...it's a form of cheating...
Are you doing it, or is it being done to you?
2006-09-14 10:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES! Cheating comes from the mind. Though they may have physical control, I would hate to be with a person who lacksed control of their mind.
2006-09-14 10:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by James S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is when you are doing something without the knowledge and/or consent of your partner. It is a trust issue. Put this in perspective of your relationship and decide.
2006-09-14 10:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋