I guess I am just looking for a bright spot. I know that she has lost interest. I know she is with another guy. she sent me a txt that was meant for her new bf. it said how much fun she had with him the night before and how she couldnt wait to see him again. I feel deep down that she will come back. With prior break ups I have never felt like I was truly meant to be with the person. I know a lot of you will write "get over it"... I am trying so dont be an ***. I am trying to find something solid to build on either way. If you are a guy could you please help and tell me how to stop feeling like such a puss?!!! I'm good looking, in shape, have a good job etc... I just feel like I find these girls that are hot and when they treat me like **** I deal because I think I love them. I'm twisted right now. Usually I can walk around proud but I am demoralized.
2006-09-14 10:27:39 · 12 answers · asked by onthedlyoshi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like she may have "accidentally" sent that text to you to make you jealous and it worked.
If your relationship ended because of something you did or didn't do and it's worth it to you, fix it. Let her know you still love her and that you want her back.
The worst she could do is say "no" and you'd be no worse off than you are now, in fact, it could help you get over her a little quicker.
2006-09-14 10:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time dude, believe me I know you dont want to hear that... One piece of advice and this sounds horrible but really go improve your self in some way, going to the gym, tanning, eating right, nice clothes a good job, or a new car that rocks.
Feel better about yourself is what I am saying, right now is the best time for you, I dont mean to sound weird but use the pain you have and do something really terrific and you may not see it right now but when you are over her and you look back you would not trade this time for anything.
Promise
And when you are happier you will end up wtih the one that you was truly meant for... sont keep looking back.
2006-09-14 17:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by my_names_do_not_work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I am going through the same thing. She is doing things to mess with my head. The only advice I can give you is no matter how much you care dont let her know it. I was with the same girl for 5 years and I tried all of that I love you I want you back stuff and she just turned it around on me. If you see her out with her new guy dont cause a seen just say hello. I promise if she loves you that will hurt her most to see that you can get on without her.
2006-09-14 17:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by brent c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When she need shoulder to cry on. but the risk is she might leave after she feel better.. or she might stay if she realize how much you love her..
But if you are really good looking and alls, why it is so difficult to find new one.. That txt thing can't be accident..she just want to torture you..
2006-09-14 17:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you don't want her back. She'll do it to you again, how much more heartache do you need from her? That 'mistaken' txt? It wasn't a mistake, she was messing with your head.
You know that quiet girl that's not too bad looking and sits by herself in the corner? Ask her what she's doing this weekend.
2006-09-14 17:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only been with 2 girls, I would love to go back to my receny ex because she is the mother of my daughter and has lost her way. I would go back with her if she was able to change, because she was great to me up until she left a month before our wedding for no reason.
2006-09-14 17:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about there, there is a ton of woman out there that would be perfect for you,, we as people tend to dwell on the past,, Move forward,, cant change the past but you can make your future descision with the knowledge you have today
2006-09-14 17:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to search else where for a girl go on personality rather than looks.
2006-09-14 17:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....I have because he was my first kiss and my bestfriend...he was alway calling me trying to go out to the movies and I was always there.....so if she still likes you go for it there is nothing holding you back...unless she's got a bf
2006-09-14 17:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by blondesaresexy13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and about, meet some new girls and forget her, she's moved on.
2006-09-14 17:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋