me and my bf love each other a lot and i want it to last for a very long time how do you do that????
2006-09-14 10:24:53 · 15 answers · asked by jackie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it's going to sound corny, but there are three keys to a good relationship.....communication, honesty, and compromise. you have to talk to each other and communicate your feelings. you have to be honest with each other and have trust. and you have to be willing to compromise with each other. it may sound easy, but it's not. it takes a lot of hard work. good luck!
2006-09-14 10:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did a year and a half at 15 long distance. My key was just listen. Yeah its a lot of compromise because we were both so busy, but if you want it to work it will. Him and I never argued. We were each others best friends first also since we obviously didnt go to the same school when we were together there was no presure to do anything. Just make sure he listens to you and vise versa if he says no listen as he should do for you. If you dont have that respct in cant work.
2006-09-14 10:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by katie t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband and I started out as high school sweethearts and we've been together for almost 16 years. You've got to love through tough times and love through good times. The best things about us is that we can talk about anything and we can laugh about everything. My husband told me once that we should put ourselves in each others place before making a rash decision and so far that's worked...nobody wants to hurt the other person. So my advise is Love,Laugh,be mindful of feelings,and pray:)
2006-09-14 10:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by tawny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a relationship going by doing and sharing interesting things.Learn what each other likes and dislikes and let sex be a long term goal!
2006-09-14 10:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by CORN-CHIEF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise, listen, talk and love like you have never loved. My husband and I married when I was 18 and we are going on 5 years soon. Young love is possible and can lead to marriage. :-)
2006-09-14 10:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by amandaholes19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way to keep a relatinship going is to not give everything to the guy. it sounds wierd but its tru. if you do guys will think your a slut nd den the relationship will become dull. guys love a challenge and if you dont give them everything they'll keep on tryin and the more they try the more they fall into you nd den they cant let go of you
my cuzin was up a guys dick alot (not literally) she gave him everything and they lasted for like 4 weeks
my otha cuzin wasnt up his dick she was the way i explained nd now there two year anniversity iz in a month
2006-09-17 08:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just think to yourself "It's only a couple of years, and I'm still young. I got a lot of years ahead of me."
2006-09-14 10:28:24 · answer #7 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be true to each other and have fun, if he wants the same you will be just fine.
2006-09-14 10:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by T agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day at a time
2006-09-14 10:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always tell him that u love him and never want to be away and that your life is complete with him and never be busy when he asks you to go somewhere.....tell him that your life isn't worth living if he's not in it.....
2006-09-14 10:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋