i don't mind them talking behind my back but i don't want them in my life. thanks.
one more thing. if you have such nasty people at work where they could be a threat to your "existence" what do you do. you want to keep them at a distance but they'll just keep pushing just to be mean.
2006-09-14 10:10:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You just ignore it. Even if you don't do anything worth gossiping about, some people will make stuff up about you. The reason is because they're idiots.
2006-09-14 10:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 things you could possibly do: ignore them (if its not worth wasting your time to confront them), or you can confront them( but they'll probably deny it), befriend them(but be sarcastic as hell).
talk to them and befriend them that way since you konw it or even if your paraniod you ll be the bigger person, dont give them anything to talk about. If that doesnt work da' hell wit' em. Kill them with kindness but dont be too kind....like opening up to them.. or dont give them anything to talk about.....just conversate on their side not yours (if you know what i mean), be sarcastic.
in the bible it says to be friends with enemies (dont know the exact scripture but you can look it up if you want)
theres also another thing that i believe which is there is no such thing as a "true" enemy cuz sooner or later your enemies can be your friends and your friends as enemies
or you can attack them back by looking for dirt cuz everyones got dirt. Then you can start rumors.
2006-09-14 10:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to put up with bullies in your workplace. You can't always avoid them and you can't always ignore them. Depending on the situation and who is involved you may need to have a meeting with yourself and the aggrivator as well as your boss to clarify the situation.
You'd think in the grownup world people would stop acting like 13 year olds but sometimes you still need someone bigger, stronger (and with control over their paychecks) to make them play nice.
2006-09-14 10:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by miss_dots_n_dashes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be wary of being so confident "they" are talking behind your back. If your feeling especially paranoid obtain some evidence, keep it to yourself, (and possibly obtainees!) then use this carefully to your advantage.
If they even remotely give a *)*( you'll be able to turn the situation around.
2006-09-14 10:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ontol 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i laugh in their faces n give them something else to talk about...i dont like to feel threaten so i would confront them ppl n if i have to i would show them whos the threat but ur not like me...im aggressive n i dont like nasty ppl like that...i would lose my job n go to jail.i would recommend u too look around for another job before thing get out of hand...it doesnt seem like a good atmosphere or enviroment to work in.
2006-09-14 10:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by purrdykitten2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's the deal Sheri....people talk, you do it too. we may not always like it and there is no controlling it.
just think about the fact that yes... you do it too. it does not make us bad just communicators.
I try to give people good things to talk about. Hey but I am by no means a saint or perfect. It is just much more fun to be outside the norm. and people will have something to say to someone. oh well.
2006-09-14 10:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by drewwers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The secret to happiness? Do not worry about what people think about you. Just live as good a life as possible, do as good a job as possible, and all that will take care of itself.
If they make your workplace intolerable, then file a complaint or leave.
2006-09-14 10:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eliminate them from your life...you should only surround yourself with those who bring you higher. You are like the 5people you hang out. Life is too short to be around negative people. If you see them you dont have to be mean or anything just kill them with kindness but do not let them into your life!
2006-09-14 10:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by BahamaBlue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid them Work is the worst place because everyone is out to get your job by any means possible. Just do your job and good things will happen.
2006-09-14 10:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be some one who talk behind your talk.The golden strategy is to IGNORE them.No people at work who really are busy working rather than broadcasting info about co-workers.
2006-09-14 10:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Malam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋