i like this girl and have no idea how to spark a conversation. She is only in one of my classes and i don't normally talk to her. Is there a way i can start one off without seeming like an idiot?
2006-09-14 09:44:06 · 18 answers · asked by Vessel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you leave class, you make sure you're right behind her, and then make a remark about that class you just had, and when she turns around, you say, don't you agree? with a big smile (only have to wait until something "different" happens in class) you then ask, don't you think so? if she turns away and doesn't react, just ask her, what's wrong? be really sensitive, but funny, meaning that in a good way, girls like well behaving interesting yet with a good sense of humour, and some kind of persistence (not giving up when she doesn't react... maybe she's shy too) Good luck!
2006-09-14 09:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start off by just smiling at her. then next day, say hello. then next day ask her how she's finding the subject.
Just build the conversation up gradually, dont just jump straight in and ask her out!
Get your confidence up first, see if she talks to you back. If she ignores you when you try to talk to her then you've probably got little chance that she see's you as anything other than another pupil in the class.
Just see how the conversation goes before taking the plunge!!!
Good luck
2006-09-14 10:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mizz Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see what she is interested in and branch off from there. Once you have got to know eachother a little better, you will have plenty of things to discuss. It just takes time, once the relationship has built you will find it easier to talk to her and you will find the conversations dont dry up as much.
2006-09-14 09:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask to borrow something... pen, pencil whatever.... and then give it back to her at the end of the lesson, sparking up a bit of light banter and conversation. Have a joke to hand to crack when you give it back.
2006-09-14 20:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will only come across as weird if you think you are being weird.
If you believe it is normal to just go over and talk then you will come across as more genuine and normal - as opposed to some nervous guy acting all weird.
2006-09-14 10:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Young Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. About what?? ... I don't know anything ... you never know , she might like you too .... start off slow ... ask her name (if you don't know it) ... ask if she likes the class ... you know stuff about school ... and think hard .... think about what she says .. you may be able to relate it to something in your life and you may find out that you have a lot of things in common...
2006-09-14 09:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you meet in the classroom, casually say (one of the oldest lines in the business) 'We'll have to stop meeting like this, people will begin talking' and see what she says...........
2006-09-14 09:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play Dective first, find out what she likes, or what she dosen't.ask arround, and then ask her. maybe what her favorite color is, or how she's doing? it's the simple things that matter to us. don't be afraid to ask her what foods she likes, or what Movie she's seen latly or likes. Maybe give her a compliment.
2006-09-14 09:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by ladieerin94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding out something she's into, then do some research on it and then you'll feel confident that you'll have something to talk about with her, just say "hi i heard you're into ____ so am i!"
2006-09-14 09:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by MetallicaRule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is enjoying the class, likes the teacher, is coping with the work, would mind explaining it to you etc etc
2006-09-14 09:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋