My boyfriend and I have had our ups and downs in the past but now he is supposed to be using another woman to get money. I am not in the best financial position and this is making me crazy. Any advice?
2006-09-14 09:42:12 · 14 answers · asked by sxybggr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's willing to intentionally hurt someone by using them in that way... do you really want to be associated with someone that despicable?
There's nothing to stop him from using you too! Or he might just be using that as an excuse to cheat on you!
Dump him ASAP!
2006-09-14 09:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure all the other answers will give you good advise.
More importantly, how did this guy pull this off? He has a girlfriend and a girl he is using for money? That sounds like a great situation (for him). This is a situation most guys only dream of. If you cook him dinner every night, then this might just be heaven.
2006-09-14 09:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Take it from Toby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... Did you read what you said?
What type of man uses another person/woman to get money. Why is it your job to support your boyfriend? Any decent man should be able to find a job and be able to support himself.
And what type of person uses another? And what makes you immune from him using you?
Sister, he's a playa! And I don mean to be a playa hata, but you gots to tell it like it is, you know what I'm saying? Drop it like its hot! You can do better, girl!
2006-09-14 09:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by coffee_addict 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you working? if you are not, look for a job, Do not hurt yourself, it is not worth it. If your boyfriend can't support his self, why would you want him, he can"t help you. and then cheating on you. just walk away from this guy, find you some one who wants only you.
2006-09-14 10:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't hurt anyone , problems are a part of life , when you overcome them you understand life better your relationships better ..
believe even with so many problems , when I wake up in the morning I smile and say that I will give my best and see what life has in store for me .. .
2006-09-14 09:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by atultuff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your b/f is using someone for money!!! how would you feel if you found out someone was using you for money or taking advantage of your things? get real.
2006-09-14 09:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by loveson1990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes-get a job.
2006-09-14 09:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Away From Him.....sounds like all he's after is someone to take care of him !!....if he needs that...tell him to go home to mommy !!!
2006-09-14 09:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by Buffy W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his a s s. It'll never change.
2006-09-14 09:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ME♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything that won't make you happy...u shouldn't put a guy in front of yourself and your own emotions
2006-09-14 09:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋