I have a problem I am 20 yr's old, and during sex I don't orgasm. Why can't I? what can i try? is there a different position that would help? I orgasm during oral sex, but not during sex. Help?? it's frustrating!
2006-09-14 09:39:13 · 1 answers · asked by angel1986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really need help I sound desperate, but when it doesn't happen it makes me feel insecure
2006-09-14 10:04:08 · update #1
You don't say if you are a woman or a man, but I will assume you are a woman for now. You orgasm much easier with stimulation to your clitoris. so, while you are having vaginal sex, stimulate your clitoris, either with your hand or with your partner's hand.
If you typically have oral sex and an orgasm before vaginal sex, attempt to come close to orgasm with the oral and stop before you finish. Continue the sex vaginally and you will have more pent up sensation to help you have the vaginal orgasm.
If you are a man, you may try stimulating condoms or you can ask your partner to put pressure on your penis to help with the friction to increase the possibility for orgasm while having sex. Do the same oral stimulation described above, but don't complete the climax until you have started vaginal sex.
2006-09-14 11:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ken C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋