it seems that after 3 years of riding the bus my son is suddenly a trouble maker, He told me the driver was rude and yells alot and she was a bit rude to me when she was talking. SO how do I make him behave anyhow I do not have the resources to drive him to and from school everyday.
2006-09-14 09:32:07 · 16 answers · asked by Shadow Kat 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell him that if he doesn't behave that you are going to drive him to school and walk him to his first class in your curlers and robe.
2006-09-14 09:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him not at him. Find out why he is acting the way he does. Most kids have a reason. Let him know that you love and support while at the same time you will not tolarate his behavior. If it doesn't stop, then take away the things he loves most, video games, tv ect.... Let him know that you will provide a roof over his head and food to eat, but no pleasures. This is tough, but it will work. I am not suggesting be extremely hard on him, just be firm, but always, always let him know how very much you love him and support him. Also, I would go to the board of education and report the bus driver if she/he is the problem. Good luck.
2006-09-14 09:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He misbehaves because the rewards are greater than the consequences. Increase the consequences and stick to them. So, the bus driver is rude? He's got to learn that there are rude people in the world and one must deal with them. All rude people aren't servants. AND, the drivers rudeness doesn't give him permission to be a troublemaker.
PS. It troubles me that your first thought is to drive him to and from school which is a HUGE reward for his making trouble. And what does he learn from that? TO MAKE TROUBLE!
2006-09-14 09:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police. i won't have the ability to have confidence that there is unquestionably one of these ingredient as a "guy up " regulation considering hitting is seen attack. i'd call the police and have them look into the college and the bus driving force. Neither of which sound precise to me. it relatively is outrageous and disgusting. it extremely is of my opinion that the bus driving force substitute into responsible to renounce the bus and supply up the abuse. He would have called the police particularly than have that kind of habit on his bus. This guy would desire to be fired so would desire to the first of the college. Take this to the optimal point of capability which you would be able to. in case you don't get delight after submitting a police checklist first for attack (the youngsters) and then for abuse (the bus driving force) who by the form endangered the welfare of your new child..... then i'd take this to a private criminal expert who's prepared to take the case professional bono and enable the college and bus employing company take the brunt of the regulation healthy costs....enable the %^&*( pay for what they did, and extra so by using fact they are giving you the run around and desire which you will pass away. do no longer, combat the &*(*&%!!!!!
2016-09-30 23:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if the driver is rude that you will report him or her....but that he needs to behave himself on the bus as you have no other way to get him to school........and that if he gets kicked off the bus you will get in trouble for him not being able to get to school
2006-09-14 10:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see no correlation between the change to a nasty bus driver and the sudden "change" in your son's behavior? I would first be a little concerned about the bus driver if I were you.
2006-09-14 09:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your son to talk to the driver (yeah, yeah, she's not the nicest but heck, driving a bus is not a dream job , is it?). Tell him to apologize to the driver and give her his word that he won't misbehave again. At least, the driver can see that you are trying to help. but you will have to follow-up with her to see if your son is being good.
2006-09-14 09:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to look out for different things on the route,one at a time.Things like a red car, white truck, tall tree, man with a hat,easy things. Hopefully it might take his mind off being naughty. Good luck. I used it on my nephew and it worked
2006-09-14 09:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got suspended off the bus twice when I was younger for shooting spitwads at the bus driver. I also had to write sentences dozens of times. Guess what? It didn't teach me s h i t. There's nothing you can do.
2006-09-14 09:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Pronkville 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should reinforce him with something he likes, or give him allowance to buy something he wants; It's not that your reinforcing bad behavior, it will give him something to look forward to. It could just be a stage he's going through.~ Good Luck!
2006-09-14 09:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by Boteka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋