i think i am pretty cute, i am pretty popular and i have alot of friends. Can you help me, please?
2006-09-14 09:26:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus, i am pretty social. So, why don't guys like more than a friend? There is one guy but, look for my other questions and answer those, please?!
2006-09-14 09:33:27 · update #1
I, too, never dated in high school. I didn't much care about it either. I looked at all the girls who were compromising their own principles in order to get into the sororities, and I just thought to myself "Never me!" The girl who was voted the prom "queen" actually bought the vote on her back with the football team. I absolutely did not want to be like that.
So, if being "popular" means putting out for most guys without question, aren't you glad that they'd rather be your friend?
Try expanding your horizons beyond your school. Get a part time job, and if you meet a great guy doing that, date him.
Once I got beyond high school, I ended up being very sought after by guys. If I had wanted to, my college years would have been spent in dating every night.
So, don't look upon your "unpopularity" as a flaw in you...think of it as blindness in them.
2006-09-14 09:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with having a lot of guy friends, and no, it doesn't make you "funny", whatever that means. You should think of it as being a great person to be around. Two of my best friends are guys, and while some of our friends don't seem able to understand that it's just a friendship and nothing more, I wouldn't trade them for anything. You can get a whole other perspective on problems or issues or whatever from a guy than you will from a girl. Enjoy their friendships because each one is a special gift.
2006-09-14 09:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. When I was in high school I had a lot of guy friends. I generally like socializing better with men than women as a whole. I dont understand what kind of help you need? Sounds like everything is going well for you.
2006-09-14 09:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sophia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you stated your qualifications, but, you didnt get to the heart of your question...
What is it that you really want?
Stating that you are "pretty cute", "pretty popular", doesnt present a problem.
So, how about putting in another paragraph or two to state what the problem is, so that we can address it.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-09-14 09:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not at all. im in my 30s and all my life most of my best friends are guys. dont worry what other people say.
2006-09-14 09:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by qt pie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your problem that no one will ask you out?
2006-09-14 09:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by thumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help you with what? Where is the problem?
2006-09-14 09:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get out more.
2006-09-14 09:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by ali_ed2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR CHRIST SAKE THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS POPULAR PEOPLE...CANT WE ALL JUST GET ALONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 09:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by Aycilla 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope...
2006-09-14 09:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋