Im 20, tall, fit, green eyes and blond. Probably guys think Im an air head when they see me, they approach me and as soon as we start having a real conversation, they start acting stupid.
It seems I have no luck with guys my age, I get a lot of attention of older men but I dont feel confortable at all.
Am I doomed for being smart?
2006-09-14 09:18:59 · 24 answers · asked by natarrenata 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, you are doomed because your not "easy"!
Young men are on the "prowl". They want easy scores...
Like you said, "dumb slutty girls". Those who "put out" fulfill thier immediate needs of sexual lust.
You, on the other hand, they recognise as a smart cookie, so they know that they are not going to "get" what they want, because your too smart for a "one night stand".
Stick to your guns, young lady, and you will meet a nice guy who loves you for your "smarts", and will appreciate your looks too.
But, remember, being smart is not a substitute for being a good Mom when the time comes to when your biological clock starts to tick and you have the urge to have children. Pick a good man, and may you have many children, and may they grow up to be as smart as thier Mother.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-09-14 09:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natarenna, ur another one. Young ladies are advancedin maturity by 3 yrs. if she's bright then 4. most guys are equal exact opposite behind 3yrs. so if u r 20 dating/socializing with guys same as....its more like a 23/24 yr old lady trying to hook uo with a 17 yr old kid.....so who's the dummy? since u r smart go for older college guys no younger than 24/25 and see the difference. u r wasting ur valuable precious youthful beautyso spread this word to all ladies and good luck
email me...i'll holla LOL
2006-09-14 09:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Necat T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that there isn't something about you causing this... It's probably the age you are at. In a few years it should get better, as your peers high attitudes will tone down a little. They will start looking for a person to have a real relationship and eventually settle down with. You're at the stage of life where irresponsibility and experimenting run rampant. The phase will pass.
2006-09-14 09:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bravo Your Life! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Slutty girls are just easier for idiots to be with.
You're not doomed. The guys are. They're probably not acting stupid either. Guys your age just are stupid. Especially around smart pretty girls.
2006-09-14 09:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by R G M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOA!!! I'm 24, my wife is 30, has 2 degrees and is going on to get her doctorate!!! AND SHE"S HOT!!!! The only reason guys date easy women is because there not willing to put in the work it takes to find a nice girl. Hell I did that for a long time. Guess I got lucky.
2006-09-14 09:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by The Bowling League Champion!!! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm 20 turning 21 this year and my boyfriend is eighteen. does not appear like plenty now yet lower back whilst we first met he became 14 and that i became going on 17 people concept we've been loopy. age does not save in mind that plenty anymore, plus i be responsive to thousands of people with youthful boyfriends, decide for it!
2016-11-07 08:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by pachter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't only like to date dumb slutty girls! You just haven't been around the right guys. Guys take longer to mature, so maybe you intimidate some guys and then that causes them to act "stupid". Keep looking, the right guy will come along; it just hasn't been right yet. Focus on yourself & enjoy your life as is. The right guy will come along.....
2006-09-14 09:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by bcre8ive2day 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No no, you are not hon. I think those guys who likes to go out with dumb slutty girls (as you said) only want to have "you know what" with them.
Only the good guys will see and admire your smartness =)
Good luck.
2006-09-14 09:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by p a m m y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those 20 year olds got one thing in mind, and it ain't settling down.
They want the air headed bimbos cause they want the wham bam, and they think they stand a better chance by b.s.ing them.
Older men know how to treat the women, just we are to old now to find one after we got "out of our prime"
Stay smart.
You will be much better for it.
Good luck
2006-09-14 09:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by leftturnclyde152521 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because those guys are mindless sluts too. You need to find someone intelligent and mature. And it doesn't end at age 24, for some it never ends.
2006-09-14 09:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by BereaGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋