Im a 23 year old guy. My girlfriend is 2 years younger than me. Ever since she started working at this new place she has totally changed. She lies to me saying she is going to her aunt's place but after probing her, she admitted that she went out with a working colleague. She then said he is just a friend.
I was so angry that I told her its over between us. She cried and told me not to leave her. I forgave her and accepted her back. Then the same thing happened again. I forgave her and accepted her back. This happened like about say 10 times.
Then the recent one was she sent some guy her photo and she called me to ask if I had received the photo yet when actually she wanted to call the guy but instead called me. She lied and said she sent to her galfren. I probed and she admitted she sent to a guy. I told her its over and now she says she will never do it again and wants me back. Why is she lying to me? What should I do?
2006-09-14 09:14:07 · 34 answers · asked by Keemo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, get a new girlfriend. your too forgiving. i would have kicked that b!tch to the curb after about 2 times, and you let it happen 10 times? dude, drop her. she obviously doesnt think too highly of you if she plays you like a fiddle. and that crying bullshit, HA! shes just upset cuz she got caught. 10 bux says she being poked by some other dude at her new job. If you want to get back at her....
1. Stay with her
2. Find someone else
3. Cheat on her like crazy
4. When she finds out about it, dump her because she "wasnt giving you what you want". haha, that will sting like a fissure in the Äss to her.
2006-09-14 09:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by nick n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying is a form of living in a fantasty world. Most habitual liers cannot tell reality from the world that their lying creates. This is learned at an early age and has to be fixed with serious self reflection and or therapy. Nothing you do can change her! Suggest help to her or you will have to move on to someone living in a real - truthful world. If she doesn't try to improve - than you need to find someone else. If you don't - than you are lying to yourself that things will get better. We cannot change others - people can only change themselves.
2006-09-14 09:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by NONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetheart a person will only do what you let them do so thats your num1 problem put your foot down and mean it when you do it once a lyier and then a cheater so she is doing all of this **** for a reason are you guys relashionship still good is the sex great do you go out often and most importantly do you communicate together.ask your self those top questions and then get back to me.always remeber the key to life and ya relashionship is communication.ebony at www.neyosunbun@yahoo.com get back
2006-09-14 09:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by ebony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to be very very taxing & tiriing if there are going to be lies after lies after lies.You caught her red-handed & so she has no other choice but to admit it.imagine if he didn't probe & you think she will tell you ! She started working & i can honestly tell you its a JUNGLE OUT THERE !this could only be the beginining of the nightmare.I'm so sorry dude, but the fact is she will be tempted,influenced by her colleagues.Think about it & be true to yrself.End the relationship cos its not worth the effort.you WILL face with more lies & that's for sure!
2006-09-16 20:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that she is probably cheating. Maybe you should call the show Cheaters! Seriously, if you caught someone lying there's no way you can have trust, and that's the most important thing to a working relationship. I'd say call it a loss and move on.
2006-09-14 09:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by Emjay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with her? Are you serious dude? Get ahold of yourself and have some self respect - you obviously are giving her something other then what she is getting elsewhere, like a place to stay, money, whatever - bring another girl home and see what she says when she see you with her . . .
Listen man, she's playing you - cut her off, now.
2006-09-14 09:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave her an inch, now shes taking a mile. Shes lying because thus far, you have let her get away with it.
Leave her again, for good this time.
2006-09-14 09:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world are you even putting yourself through all that. Dump her....
She's a child and she wants to play and from the looks of things you want something serious so get rid of her.
2006-09-14 09:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by C2daK1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm sorry, but it's only a matter of time before she starts cheating on you for real, if she isn't already. Dump her for real. Do NOT take her back, and get tested for ALL STDs.
Sorry.
2006-09-14 09:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lying because she's a liar. She wants to have her cake and eat it too and your letting her. Forgive her this time and she is sure to do it again and again as she already has. You should dump her for good this time.
2006-09-14 09:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋