How to overcome odd,irritating,mad,liar,stupid,never understanding,sweet talker,revenge taker pretending-to-be-verygood sister in laws (husband's sister) ???
Are they born bitches or ....what wud you suggest? If you have examples pls be free to write in details as I AM REALLY LOOKING FOR SOME GOOD ANSWERS TO GET RID OF THIS PEST (my sis in law).MY LIFE IS RUINED BCOS OF HER.
Thanks.
2006-09-14 08:30:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My hubby is also aware wht type she is.Even her hubby is aware.He's also the same.But she doesnt change & all hve given up.I cannot act goody goody n take the credit.I wanna do everyting straight,dont wanna involve wrong/lies.M staying 2 kms away frm her.Pls give real genuine answers to get rid of such a person.Thanks.
2006-09-14 08:41:19 · update #1
My hubby is also aware wht type she is.Even her hubby is aware.He's also the same.But she doesnt change & all hve given up.I cannot act goody goody n take the credit.I wanna do everyting straight,dont wanna involve wrong/lies.M staying 2 kms away frm her.Pls give real genuine answers to get rid of such a person.Thanks.
2006-09-14 08:42:03 · update #2
My hubby is also aware wht type she is.Even her hubby is aware.He's also the same.But she doesnt change & all hve given up.I cannot act goody goody n take the credit.I wanna do everyting straight,dont wanna involve wrong/lies.M staying 2 kms away frm her.Pls give real genuine answers to get rid of such a person.Thanks.
2006-09-14 08:42:06 · update #3
My hubby is also aware wht type she is.Even her hubby is aware.He's also the same.But she doesnt change & all hve given up.I cannot act goody goody n take the credit.I wanna do everyting straight,dont wanna involve wrong/lies.M staying 2 kms away frm her.Pls give real genuine answers to get rid of such a person.Thanks.
2006-09-14 08:42:14 · update #4
You alone can ruin your life. Don't let someone else do it.
2006-09-14 08:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Linger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that problem with my sister in law and the best advice I can give you is to overlook her, She should have no power over your life, ignore her behavior and she should stop if she doesnt then you dont need her in your life, no one should have that negative of an impact on your life. She should accept you for who you are, after all your husband decided to marry you... she should be respectful of that fact and not be such a ***** about it. I would suggest doing one of these three things
Ignore her, because you dont wanna stoop to her level and in the process let her know that she is getting to you
sit her down and talk to her about her behavior and how you dont appreciate it
or simply just avoid her all together,
no one should hurt you like that, dont let her have any influence over your life...
2006-09-14 08:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by beautifullybroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 23:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confrontation with facts is the best way to overome such problems...no matetr how much you try and paly games it will not work out...by nature we are not like the saas bahu's of serials who can scheme and plan...talk to your husband because if he supports then you will be victorious anyways...moreover always confront anyone or talk about that person with proof...never do name calling always keep your calm and patience while having a discussion...
2006-09-14 08:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by freemind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, no can do there..she's family and unless if your husband sees her the way you do then it's a no go. don't try to convince your husband either else you'll look like the bad guy.
the best thing to do is be everything she isn't and try by being sweet tempered and understanding towards her when she's being a beeotch you'll show what type of person she is to the family. but you have to become a really good actress and make it convincing.
2006-09-14 08:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You behave the same as your sister in law is doing and after all if your husband loves you then what the problem with this.Yes it is not good if she is causing you any harm.better talk to ur hubby as a friend--dont fight.I am giving you suggestions but very difficult to handle.But try .
2006-09-14 09:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have the same situation right now but in my side its a brother-in-law...well I'm just ignoring him and sometimes i do things that makes him barmy...Turn your cheek when it comes to someones bizarre behavior. This is only a temporary phase, so stop trying to fix it or get it to knock it off. If worse comes to worse, avoid seeing them until they chill out. Just don't let anybody ruined your day!:)
2006-09-14 08:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking that you were talking about yourself.......Because you think that she is a .... doesn't mean that she is one. You may be your worst enemy not her.
The only way you will get rid of this so called pest is for you to walk out.....So how much do you love your husband? Enough to put up with sister or not.....Your choice.
2006-09-14 08:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there................My suggestion is that you start living away from her , I mean stay as far as possible, if you are far away then the interaction will be less, then you all will meet less & that ways the complications in ur lives will also be less.
Better you change your houses to a diffent location which is far away from your relations place.
2006-09-15 21:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her!
Talk to your husband and tell him that your love for him is not for free of cost. your love must be tough! tell him that the life decisions should be taken between you both only. stop meditating about her. until your sister in law get married , you keep patience. pray to god for wisdom to be given to your husband.
2006-09-14 19:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being there and hanging in with it is half of your revenge. Let your husband know the things she does so he can watch and see them for himself. Get him on your side and you're not alone.
2006-09-14 08:35:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋