I'm trying to understand my man. When we decided to commit we had talked about having kids. He always pulls out. But when we get over a fight he always cums inside. Why does he only do it when we get over a fight?
2006-09-14 08:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by dodgergirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because when his emotions are heightened, they take over his ability to discern what a gentleman is. he is willing to treat u however he wants when he is angry, and mindful of getting u pregnant before he's ready when in a good mood. getting u pregnant after a fight may cause him to think lower of you, does that make sense? he might even leave u after getting u pregnant, to "get back" at u for getting him upset. be careful w/ this guy.
2006-09-14 08:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is trying to save you from something he doesn't think you are ready for yet [children], but after a fight, he doesn't care. Thus it could be that he is trying to punish you.
On the other hand, maybe it is him that isn't ready yet, and is afraid of what it could do to your relationship, which, once again, he doesn't care about after a fight.
Or perhaps, after you have fought and made up, he feels all the closer to you [for a fight resolved expresses love], and wants to have a family, because he feels too much love for just one person.
2006-09-14 15:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why he would do that! Did he indicate that he wanted children before you commited to each other? You know what they say about fighting. The fun is in making up. So if you want to have a child wait until you have your period and make him mad as hell. Then invite him to bed so that you and him can make up
2006-09-14 15:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by wroberts_1939@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are displeased with him, that's when he loves you the most. When your love appears barren to him, that's when he is most keen on impregnating you. His interest in building a committed relationship with you may be a reflection of his sex drive, which fluctuates in opposition to your emotional need for him. His behavior is an example of immaturity, I think.
2006-09-14 15:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew Noselli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, if all your using is the pull out and pray trick, then you'll get knocked up soon enough.
2006-09-14 15:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think either he is not commited to you or he is mentally not prepared to become a father
2006-09-14 15:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by J D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋