2006-09-14 08:23:55 · 30 answers · asked by Sexy-n-Hot 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are in a relationship with him let him know it bothers you and he needs to stop. If he truly loves you then there is no need for him to be flirting with anyone else. Chances are if he is flirting on line he is telling them he is single. After you talk to him if things don't change then leave him cause chances are he is a cheater and is always going to be shopping around for someone new.
2006-09-14 08:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by deadly_rose_04 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, the internet poses the problem of addiction that are indicative of underlying issues. When someone is alone and behind closed doors, the internet becomes endless and no one is over the person's shoulder (ie; you)- therefore, there are no punishments, unless self imposed. Most of the time porn and interaction addictions clearly indicate an underlying tension or want, and the problem actually has nothing to do with you, rather he sees a "safe" outlet for his underlying desire/addictions on a screen. Internet addictions can be as addictive and abusive as crack or herion- and the interaction with other women, especially other women online, is categorically an action of validation...You know, validation of self- do other humans find me attractive, where am I positioned along this scale of attractiveness???
I would suggest attempting to ascertain how long the behavior has been in action. If this is a long term behavior, it could be addiction. If you are in a long term relationship with this man, you have a right to feel mistreated and overlooked. I have felt this way many times with my significant other, however sometimes the feeling of "I'm angry at you over this" coupled with him feeling like someone's watching him can fuel the fire and in turn make him angry with you! Sometimes this can become a cycle, and to break the cycle he must admit his faults regarding this matter.
Explain your feelings to him because you're feelings are valid, and show that you care about yourself and the relationship. Another option is filter software, this can block certain sites or make porn and adult content inaccesable. If he loves you, he should be willing to do whatever it takes to be attentive to your feelings.
2006-09-14 08:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by ThisMess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just harmless. Maybe he just needs an ego boost. He knows that you love him, but maybe he wants to know that he's still attractive as a person. Doesn't really mean anything. If it starts to get out of control (he tries to arrange meetings, he makes up excuses not to see you way too often, he makes some major changes like exercising more or changing his look) then you need to step in.
2006-09-14 08:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Johhny Drama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this happen to me! My boyfriend of three years went on Adult Friend Finder to meet others that live in the same town or near. When I confronted him, he said he was doing it for fun. He says he just wanted to see all the people on there to see if he knew anyone. Bullshit! I did more searching and found he was trying to make a profile for himself saying things like "hot italian wants to **** hot blonde"...basically he was trying to make himself seem like a sex goddess. Anyways, we're not together anymore, but I'd highly adivce you to look out!
2006-09-14 08:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Laura L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how it makes you feel. Ask him if he would like you doing the same thing! Flirting leads to cheating! If you are in a relationship he shouldn't be flirting with other women on line!
2006-09-14 08:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 10:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, he may not be aware of how it affects you or that he is even doing anything wrong. Some men are that dense. In any case, if he doesn't listen or care, he is not worth your time. If you're married, however, please seek some sort of counseling. This has got to stop!! It's only going to get worse.
2006-09-14 08:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by Emi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and say this to his face something like i dont like it when u flirt to that girl online it brakes my heart ud like and internet girl more then real life why would you do that? and let him answer if he says im sorry i wont do it ever again IM so sorry say well i guess i can accept your apolagy JUSt understand One mroe time i see you doing that Were over ok.
2006-09-14 08:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.. let him know how it makes you feel. Depending on his reaction and how he adjust his behavior you should either trust him or leave him. If he takes your feelings into account then i would say he is worth your time and your heart. But you do need to talk to him... or it might eat away at you.
2006-09-14 08:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Virginia1228 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him and give him a wake up call. He doesn't need to go on a computer if you give him what he needs that is there in front of him.
2006-09-14 08:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋