I meet the girl of my dreams....she's everything...we date for month, and the time is right for 'making love'.....BUT!! she blurts out 'I love anal'.....am sorry i'm not that type of guy....do i just leave...
2006-09-14 08:23:27 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats so special about Anal...is it a different pleasure that normal sex...I mean I don't mind oral...giving/recieving
2006-09-14 08:29:18 · update #1
can you be my fella all he wants is anal
2006-09-14 08:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,OK, the first time you're "making love" Jeeez... may be a bit soon for doing the whole everything on the list thing sex wise BUT, man, what is wrong with you??? Would you want to leave her cause she didn't perform some act that YOU liked? Explore each other, love her and stop being a prude!
2006-09-14 15:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her - just tell her you feel uncomfortable with doing anal at this point and time and you'd prefer to stick to "normal" sex until ye know each other a bit better. If shes the girl you say she is - it wont be a problem and she'll understand. I really hope this works out for you!!
2006-09-15 05:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really the "girl of your dreams" you should be able to talk to her about this. You've got nothing to lose. Chances are, her sexual tastes have been influenced by past relationships - she may have been thinking that you would like that. Just sit down and have an honest discussion with her. If she really is the perfect girl for you things will work out.
2006-09-14 15:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by stargirllll4311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You oviosly delt with the situaton at the time. Dont run away you oviosly like her. It doesnt make her any different from the girl u r attracted to. At least she is honest with you and dont knock it till uv tried it. Im sure she is not bothered. Its just most men like it and she thought you would like her more if she did that. Just forget she even said it and go back to how uz were b4. Good luck.
2006-09-14 15:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Laura C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls would love a guy that doesn't like anal. Most guys do. I wouldn't leave without at least trying it. I hate it but i do it for my man cuz i love him. Don't knock it till you try it.
2006-09-14 15:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear. Tell her you don't brown love like that then! If it's too psychologically disturbing for you and now you don't see her the same way then call it off. No point in carrying on if she's lost that something about her after!
2006-09-14 15:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell her that you aren't into that? It may not be important enough to sacrifice the relationship. It doesn't sound like you are sexually compatible and sex is often a reason infidelities take place and relationships die.
2006-09-14 15:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ur not into that? a lot of guys love it. maybe she thought it would be a turn on for u if u knew. dont leave, it doesnt mean u guys cant still have sex
2006-09-14 15:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by cheering_cutie32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love her ? is she your dreams girl ? if yes open your heart for her and tell her how do you feel.. if not, and you want just to be a friend tell her and give her time. sex is not easy for some girls. maybe she had bad memory ..
2006-09-14 15:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by sara gh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to find out how she knows that, and how many guys have given it to her. Then you might go to the clinic and get a check up.
2006-09-14 15:29:19 · answer #11 · answered by Canned Spam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋