My mother in law religion is seven day adventist
My religion is catholict, i love my religion but my mother in law think's that her religion is the best way to go.I'm everything she's not, my husband don't worry about what his mother has to say but my problem is( we don't have any kid's at the moment) what if my husband want our kids to become seven day? Like his mother.
2006-09-14 08:22:14 · 17 answers · asked by One Love 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well what does your heart say? Im a Seventh Day Adventist..I wasnt born or raised one though...I was born and baptized Catholic and then my Mom raised us in an Assembly of God Church and my husband was 7th day Adventist. Before I met him I never knew ppl went to church on Saturday!! LOL Anywayz.. its hard when youre married to someone who isnt the same faith. But I think theyll be all faiths in Heaven one day and as long as you know that Jesus died for you and He is the Savior and follow His teachings then she shouldnt make you change. No one can make you do anything. I had a really hard time changing my beliefs. But you should learn about it with an open heart and mind and see what your husbands beliefs are. Does he keep "Sabbath"? Just curious. Take care and good luck. God bless--Sonia--
2006-09-14 08:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by RED SONIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that religion is a very peronal thing, and that you feel uncomfortable by different beliefs, even when they are very similar too. You and your husband (probably) all believe that God sent Jesus to save su from our sins, and that we are saved from Hell by his grace. Keep an open mind, read the scriptures, pray, and see how God answers. If the issue does not resolve, focus on the similarities of your faith. And your children, no matter which faith they follow will be born again, and we'll spend the rest of eternity finding out how we all never got it quite right.
2006-09-14 08:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by piscis_ex_aqua 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're mother in law seems very controlling. Religion should be a personal decision...you should let her know that. You should really talk to your husband about this, and tell him that it really bothers you that your mother in law thinks she can make a decision like this for you. It's really not any of her concern. Your mother in law kind of reminds me of the mother in law from "Everybody loves Raymond".
2006-09-14 08:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by sashaNY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms say "NO", this feels like a catastrophe. Her son heavily isn't the only dealing with it and a sparkling toddler is a huge substitute because it really is. you want to placed this boundary in position now or you'd be depressing. recommend an section interior reach or perhaps then say it would want to be alright to visit on occasion yet i imagine she is chancing her arm and also you eill be the only to pay in case you do not placed your foot down now. Take cost of this difficulty and do not enable both of them walk over you want this. You sound as once you've it sussed out besides so sturdy success.
2016-11-26 23:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by parkhurst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being a Catholic is what you love.... then don't change it for no one not even your mother. Stand by your religion. You won't be the same if you change. God doesn't really care about what religion you are just make sure you obey his word. But, think about this... I hope the best for you. Ms. Doe
2006-09-14 08:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. If you are a practicing Catholic, you raise Catholic children. I personally believe kids should be able to try several religions and choose on for themselves, but Catholicism is pretty specific about what is expected of you. If this is important to you, start talking to your husband about it now.
2006-09-14 08:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by grisgris0905 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seventh Day Adventist have a lot of hate for us Catholics.
I would suggest you and your husband discuss the children BEFORE they get here.
Make sure you know your faith!
Stay Strong.
Peace!
2006-09-14 08:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey,
There both Christain. I don't see much of a prob. The kids can learn both and then let them decide what they want. Since your husbend loves you for who you are don't concertrate on what that woman is blabbing. There your future kids. Not hers.
2006-09-14 08:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have your faith. stick to it. as for your children (when/if you have them), they should be able to choose for themselves when they are old enough. and if they choose yours, be glad. if they dont, just know they are trying to make the best judgment. children shouldnt have a certain religion forced on them but it is good to have them grow up in some church.
sry, hope i helped.
2006-09-14 08:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by J.C. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is something you'll need to talk about and work out between you and your husband.
As far as your mother-in-law goes... Is it really any of her business?
Pabs
2006-09-14 08:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by Pablito 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋