My gf has a myspace account and last week she showed me her page. There were no pictures on it just stuff written about herself on the page. This week she has posted pictures of herself and friends. Also ex boyfriends on it. She placed a title underneath the ex bf's pictures calling him sexy. Yet underneath my pic she only wrote my name. This makes me feel like I must be her second choice and not sexy. I confronted her and she took his pics off but I still wonder. What do you think was in her mind? She had to know I would see it.
2006-09-14 08:22:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn, that's cold.
2006-09-14 08:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've asked her. If you're not sexy.. why would she be with you? Is she the type to settle for something else than what she actually wants? Are you buying her off? If you're not.. there's no reason for to be with you except that she wants to. Maybe her ex is sexier.. that doesn't mean she doesn't have feelings for you. Just because you're her current boyfriend doesn't mean she doesn't see the attraction in other people. You can find your worst enemy sexy. Does she still talk to or try to talk to her ex? That's what I'd be worried about. Is she meeting guys now? I'd worry about stuff like that more than who she has on her myspace page. She didn't have to take the pic down. She may not have been thinking about the impression.. she may have been listing all she know to make herself seem popular. She clearly wasn't thinking about your feelings. You guys sound young.. forget the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship right.. develop friendships- get to know how girls think and will respond to you. You can best do this by having a female best friend.
2006-09-14 15:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very mixed messagish because she took the pic off. I would consider looking else where for companionship. If I were to put an ex's picture on my space I wouldn't put sexy under it but maybe something like My 1st Love Thank God I'm Over IT! That was very disrespectful to you especially since she knew you had already seen her myspace without that on there. She couldn't even try to lie and say she hadn't really did a good update on her site lately. That makes you look bad because her ex can look on their and see his pic and think ooooo she still wants me.
2006-09-14 15:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Janet J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there are multiple reasons:
*She might have been just trying to see what you would say, . It sounds like she might be middle or high school age and that is the kind of games they play.
*She could still have feelings for him.
*She could be trying to make you jealous.
But no matter what the reason was she may not be ready to be in a relationship with you maybe suggest some time as being friends and not a couple to make sure you aren't gonna get burned or that you are not a bf to make the ex jealous.
2006-09-14 15:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by mcfeely975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say. If my gf called any of her ex boyfriends sexy, I guess I would feel the same way. Seems to me that if she advertises that fact that she thinks her ex is sexy on myspace but doesn't label you in any way, it makes me think that she would rather be with him. Also, why would she even want to show off her ex boyfriends? Is she bragging about how many guys she has dated or how sexy they are? I don't get it.
2006-09-14 15:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by alynnemgb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont over react!! She was open enough to show you her page; most women wouldnt show their boyfriends the website or personal pages with other men on them or even the site period. you are special in your own unique way, maybe since the EX is an Ex she doenst car about lableing him, but you are the current boyfriend and if my memory is correct............ myspace is an open site for anyone to see and if another woman looks at her page and sees the title ( Long John Silver) under your pic she will be threatened at the thought of other women fantasizing about her man. anyway make a long story short.............If it is meant to be it will be, Be patient , Maybe she just hasnt figured out the best title for you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
Big Sister in NY
2006-09-14 15:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by monicafranklin2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I can see why that would upset you. I don't know what she was thinking when she did that. The good news is is that she took it off, although, I would check her page every now and then to make sure it wasn't put back on and to just check up on her a bit!
2006-09-14 15:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by amanda725_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us girls do dumb and confusing things sometimes to get a point across. Maybe she feels jealous of someone or is upset at you for some reason, especially if she knew you would see it. It sounds like something a girl would do to get your attention. Maybe talk to her about it a little more (oh and not in a 'stupid jealous boy' kind of way, in a 'I can have a grown up conversation' kind of way).
Good luck
2006-09-14 15:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was trying to hide you from someone. She might have been cheating on you .....why not mark your down as sexy?? and why in the hell would she have pics of her x? sounds kinda fishy to me. I think she was up to somethin...not triyn to fill your head with stuff but it doesn't seem right
2006-09-14 15:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Cheesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to understand the complexities of the female psyche is an exercise in frustration.
Is it a problem for you? If it is then dump her fast and move on. If it isn't then shut up and get back to work.
FP
2006-09-14 15:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She respects you.
She chooses to be with YOU right?
Of course you KNOW she thinks you're sexy!!
This isn't something to get so upset about.
Pick your battles wisely or you will drive her away.
2006-09-14 15:29:15 · answer #11 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋