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whats wrong with my ex??? keep in mind that im a honest guy. never cheated on my girlfriend. whenever she need help, i helped her. always encouraged her etc. she broke with with me before the summer. then about a month ago she told me that she was seeing other people off and on for years and she was just in a relationship and is now 4 months pregnant. we was together for about 8 years and it was long distance. atfirst is wasnt, then she moved far away. it was cool at first we saw each other 3-4 times, then after awhile things started changing. but to make a long story short, she blames me for everything, even her cheating. but the thing i really dont understand is her thinking. she claims that i was working to much and all i cared about was making money and not having a life with her. but we all work. everyone works. she claims that i should have came and got her. but thats one of the reasons why i was working so hard. but according to her i working too much?.

2006-09-14 08:20:34 · 3 answers · asked by craig h 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

she got because i got a car and didnt use that money to come see her. how else am i gonna get back and forth to work??...doesnt even make any sense. she used to get depressed because she felt like i didnt love her. but i told her almost every day. but she still refuse to believe me. i just dont understand her way of thinking. how can you get mad at a person for getting a car and you urself have one??

she says im crying and feeling pity for myself because i am alittle hurt about what she told me. like i dont have the right to feel uupset or something. she seems to have no pity at all. plus she refuses to call me. she talks to me online but she wont call me anymore. she claims that all i am gonna do is make her feel guilty. she doesnt what to feel any guilt. she used to be a nice, caring honest person when i met her. i dont know what happened to her. shes like a totally different person. im the one that put in all the hard work with her and someone else is having a child with her.

2006-09-14 08:27:21 · update #1

go figure?. oh yea...she told about the cheating and being pregnant etc , on the interent. couldnt even tell me on the phone. 8 years and it ends on a computer!!. what ya think?... i feel stupid as it is....more dissappointed than anything else.

2006-09-14 08:30:58 · update #2

3 answers

she's just trying to justify her cheating... don't take it personal. Relationships fail.. sure your working may have posed a problem but you can't take responsibility for her actions. She probably just realizes that her life is in shambles now and is looking to place blame on someone other than herself.

2006-09-14 08:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0 0

okay, here's the deal..... being a provider isn't all that we need. It's time, time together. You can't truly be there for someone when you can't see them. She probably DOES feel that it's your fault because you never spent time with her. Here's the thing with women, what you THINK we want and need are different than what we actually NEED. We need to feel like we are the number one priority and that means we want to be first on your list to spend time with. In your case, i think it was the distance that did the two of you in. Now, on the other hand, she could have been more understanding and accepting that you are working for her, and should have appreciated that more. I don't think it's all your fault, i don't think it's all her fault. I just don't think the relationship was meant to be. I wish you better luck in the future

2006-09-14 08:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by rachael 3 · 0 0

dude, never trust women, they all are c.ock suckers, something like that also happened to me

2006-09-14 08:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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