Does any other girl get jellous easily??

Question

I have been dealing with this thing, ever sense my boyfreind told me that looks at other women sexually, but can't help it because it is his instinct. Then he told me one day that he could have gotten a hotter girl, but he didn't because he was happy with me. I know we have no real problems. We both love each other, and we aren't going to leave each other. But this has caused me alot of social anxiety, wondering, what exactly is his hotter version of a girl. Making me feel like I am not physically good enough for him, even though I know I am deep down, and he always tells me I'm hot. But when he says another girl is attractive, I just get jellous, anyway. See, I live on a college campus, and there are tons of girls always dressing really skimpy, so this is one of the reasons that I feel this way. So, I know its wrong, but I have gotten very angery at these women, to the point of almost hate. Because I know I could do that if I wanted, but I feel like I can't because I don't want

to be like, look at me for my body, you know? I know I could look just as hot, doing that but I just have this internal conflict. Nomatter how much as a woman, I still feel I have the right to feel and be as sexy as I am. I get confused. I am not part of the game, and I feel like I don't want to seem like I am just because I want to be attractive too, I mean isn't that my right as a woman to beable to do that? I know I am doing this ot myself, but still.... Any other girl feel this way?

Answer 1

Um no real problems the JO told you he could have gotten a hotter girl, that would be a problem to me. Not the jealous type, but what the F is that, definitely not love honey, time to grow up and move on.

Answer 2

He's a JERK...lol..I wouldn't be worried or jealous over the likes of him. If someone told me he "could have had a hotter girl"...I'd be telling him - 'go and get her honey, cause I could definitely have a kinder guy'.
He is the kind of guy that likes to strip your self-confidence away - so he can have you where he wants you and a little on the side as well....ditch him sweetie ..and don't ever EVER let any man (or anyone) talk to you that way again. He is a Loser (with a capital L)

Answer 3

oh please, he told u what??? if my bf ever told me that he could get a hotter girl, i would pack his bags and send him an invitation - TO Get OUT OF MY LIFE!!! if he really wants to look at other slutty girls, then let him be!! he propably still needs to grow up!! Yes, i'm a jealous girlfriend too, but not in a bad way. i dont want other girls calling him etc. but wouldn't care that much if he looked at them. But then, there's a point where u need to draw a line! come on girl, tell him to stop OR he should get himself another "hotter" girl!! So by the way - is he so hot himself??? i really dont understand why u let him walk all over u!!! Be proud of yourself!

Answer 4

I think you have the right to be a little set back by his comment. But if you guys have a strong bond the other girls may be something he looks at but you got what he needs. So you can be a little jealous but don't let the jealously set the tone for the rest of your relationship

Answer 5

Aren't men funny like that, saying stupid things like he could get a hotter girl. Well fact is whatever man you get they are all going to look at all the girls. Yes it is annoying but really he's with you is he not. I'm sure your a cutie, but what really matters in a lasting relationship is the connection. As far as all the girls that dress skanky, really what do guys think of them as but a good time. Not really girlfriend material if you ask me or my boyfriend for that matter. If he's with you and tells you that he loves you and wants to be with you then listen to him. Otherwise he wouldn't tell you that he wants to be with you all the time. Trust your man, and believe in yourself.

I am confident in myself as a woman, and as far as my relationship with my man goes he just compliments me. You need to have that confidence and love for yourself and then the rest will come.

Answer 6

I was sitting with my boyfriend and his friends, when he popped of with " there was this girl who came into the store today who had turned every guys head. She was so Hot she could have worn a fat man suit and I still would have hit that."
RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!!!!
I was pissed. You know What I did,
Wore an outfit that I used to wear to clubs to get guys to buy me drinks, went into his store, and "turned every guys head"
He got jealouse that his co-workers were looking, and he never talked about any ohter girl again, in front of me.
It is okay to look, but don't touch, and don't look while your girl/boy friend is watching you.
Everyone gets jealouse, it's how you handle your jealousy that determines if your inner beauty. Just take it up a notch, instead of making your man look how atractive you are, Get his friends to starst looking, it will make him jealouse, and he will think twice before commenting again.
Remeber boys think whith the wrong head

Answer 7

I don't know why you continue to date this loser.

What sort of an imbecile says something like that to his girlfriend? He seriously said "I could have gotten a hotter girl?" That is absolutely unacceptable and it worries me that you would just put up with that crap.

I really don't think he loves you. Just a warning.

FP

Answer 8

put it like this your not going to be together forever. okay. you have to find a man thats is into you and only you. a man that cares will not say to you that he could of had a hotter chick....he only installing fear in you so you dont talk to anyone else.... so dont fall for that sh** honey.... you have the rest of your life to get the man right for you. remember real men dont ever talk about other girls in your presents...out of respect. you can do better honey :)

Answer 9

well then dont. u can look sexy with clothes covering even every inch of ur body. dont worry, u need something to boost ur self confidence.

make him a little jealous too by showing that u can get other guys easily if u wanted.

Answer 10

It's natural to get jelaous but u got to chill.
U have to know that ...thats no one is more improtant then u.
I know how it feels ...u get so low coz u know that ur not able to just as goodlooking as them and if ur b/f is checking girls out , ur not happy about that break up coz in a relationship ...u should always feel confortable.