2006-09-14 08:06:06 · 14 answers · asked by JD417 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to get over one get under another . sorry my best friend has just offered me that advice
2006-09-14 08:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am going through a divorce at the moment, it has gone on for 18 months, yep a long time, but i keep my self very busy, i go out and meet up with my friends, family. i have also enroled in some new courses at the adult edducation centre,
i found keeping my mind busy helped but when ever i was feeling down or i missed my husband i would think about all the things he did to hurt me, then i would get angry, then i would go for a very long walk and walk away the anger, come home feeling better, make a cup of tea and then go to bed with a good book, it will happen but it does take time, i don't think i am over my ex yet, but i am enjoying my life, making the most of what i can when i can, good luck, you will be ok believe me.
2006-09-14 15:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
JD it is no consolation, but we have all been there. Just try to get out and about - enlist the help of friends - keep as busy as you can. Personally, I got over it by saying to myself, if that "rat" was so geat, then why would he have hurt me so much? Then I realised better to know now than later. Also, when I met my current partner, I realised what **** I had put up with. Good luck, bad times always come to an end. You deserve better. Luv Camilla xx
2006-09-14 15:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can take awhile depending on how much you liked the person. Just try and keep busy until some time passes and you feel better. Hang out with your friends and meet new people. Good Luck, it is tough and it sucks but everything happens for a reason and you will find someone better believe it or not!!
2006-09-14 15:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the rule or thumb is half the time you were together like if you were together for 6 mo then it will take 3 mo but the exception is that get over time should never pass 9 mo because buy then you should have a new girl
2006-09-14 15:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it aint easy but cut all ties , throw all the pics and most of all delete her phone number so when you go on a night out you can't phone her , works for me but then again i've been dumped that many times it just gets easyer , time is the best healer
2006-09-14 15:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by doggy dog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get out there, and get on with life, you only have one so live it to the best of your ability, and enjoy every moment........the are heaps of girls out there who would probably wont a nice guy, so do it and good luck.
2006-09-14 15:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by donua1022 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
going though it myself mate and my advice is head up! see a few old friends keep busy( been training most days ) and remember plenty more fish in the sea
2006-09-14 15:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A series of girlfriends.
2006-09-14 15:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a replacement.
2006-09-14 15:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋