My daughters are 19 years old. The boy happens to be handsome and very rich.
2006-09-14 07:51:33 · 27 answers · asked by arrinne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think it may be up to the boy to decide!
He may not want either of them!
2006-09-14 07:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tell them, blood is thicker than water and never should they fight over the water and respect their blood by accepting the fact that one or the other will probably end up with the guy if he decides to choose either.
Anytime sisters would go as far as to fight and come to blows over a guy, I don't know what logical answer would be appropriate in helping you because that is disgusting and totally disrespectful as siblings.
Now are they fighting over the guy or are they fighting over his money.
Now sense the fighting has gotten physical both need to be evaluated as to why they have allowed this guy to cause sibling rivalry in the worst way over the same guy and if some adult doesn't' make them understand their nonsense as sisters let alone twins born the same day, I see this situation spiraling more out of control than it already has.
Maybe you can talk with the guy to see whether they even have a chance or see just who he is finding attractive.
Just because you are twins doesn't mean you have the same personalities or qualities.
2006-09-14 08:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the boy and ask him to dump both of your daughters. They are sisters and there is no need for them to have a fight or a grudge over a boy. Even if the boy just chooses one of them the one that didn't get chosen will always carry a feeling of defeat and possible a hatred for the other.
2006-09-14 07:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by GoodGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this boy like either of the girls? surely it is up to him to chose which one, if any. If he chooses one of them will that be the end of the fighting, Noooooooo ! they are going to keep it up because one won one lost. Sit them down, make them talk without shouting, see how they really feel.Maybe neither really care that much about this boy, maybe its just his looks and money that's the attraction. This boy may not be all they think he is, in which case the thing would quickly fade out. Ask your girls is this boy worth the two of them falling out over, and how would each one feel if the other got together with him.
To settle the dispute it is better that neither goes out with this boy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 08:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a threesome with the boy and your girls. Since you like the part that he is rich, maybe he will put you in a good old age home when he marries one of them.
2006-09-14 08:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they identical twins? Let one have him Monday, Wednesday Friday. The other can have him Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday. Give the poor lad Sunday off to build his strength back up.
2006-09-14 07:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i where in your siuation frist I speak to the boy on private to fine out is he playing game with my girls or not ?
If not which ones he like and care ? Im sure then you know what to do next.. there is a jealousy here .. not love .
Goog luck
2006-09-14 08:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by sara gh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one does he like? The other girl is just going to have to understand and find someone else. There is really nothing you can do, they are going to have to work this out themself but try introducing them to other boys maybe one will give in. Good Luck
2006-09-14 07:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances are you won't have to worry for long about this because once the guy realises that your twins 'appear' to be so superficial if he has any sense he'll run as fast as he can in the opposite direction. x
2006-09-18 06:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
settle the argument once and for all, tell them that he is coming between a special relationship with twins, look for somebody else money isn't everything, i bet he is loving 2 girls fighting over him what a massive ego trip for him
2006-09-17 04:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't something you need to get involved in. They are "grown" and need to handle their own love lives, as well as the relationship they have with each other. However, you should remind them both that boyfriends come and go, but sisters are sisters forever.
2006-09-14 07:58:10 · answer #11 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋