Is it possible for a girl to love a boy but not be "in love" with him while dating?
Because i know she truly does care for me, and I care for her more than i care about myself. But she is busy (with good reasons) and rarely has time for me. I know if you are "in love" with someone you NEED to be with them and you make time, at least I do. So is it possible she loves me in a different way. Which way is better? Do you think it will last?
2006-09-14 07:46:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, it is possible for a girl to only love a guy and not be IN love with him. to love some one is different than being IN love with someone. to say that she only 'loves' you can mean that she only really really likes you period. if she was IN love with you, she would show a lot more affection and make real time out of the busy time, to go and see you or at least beg you to go see her at work or at the volunteer.
then again it could be simply that she is a very social girl and prefers to be in the social life while being IN love with a guy. for example im social as well, BUT prefer to be with the one i love than being out in the croud. if i was to be in some volunteer work, i would be happy to make my bf join in wiht me. has she asked you to come and join her? to go visit her at work? do you call her everyday or does she call you?
if i were you, id worry a bit. and just to test her, i would stop calling her and give her excuses that you have this to do and that. that you wont be able to see her this week, that MAYBE the next. from then, see how she reacts, it might just be that she is being kinda hard on you knowing very well that you love her with all of your heart and she doesnt have to do a thing to make you love her, meaning, she is using you. or it can be that she is a smart, intellectual girl that truly cares for you but is responsible for her work. test her and see the reactions. itll a make a big difference.
2006-09-14 13:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by sueet2b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said she has "good reasons" for why she is busy. If she didn't want to be with you, she probably just wouldn't be with you.
It sounds like maybe you need to get busy yourself. Find things you like to do. She is keeping the mystery and the intrigue in the relationship, but are you?
2006-09-14 15:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mackenzie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing. She might just love being around you, but might not love you. If she does then you would've been had some time. You never too busy for the one you love.
2006-09-14 14:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by cilstubbs2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right, maybe she loves you but she isnt in love with you...this is a girl thing. and the deal is loving you is the second step...1st liking, 2nd loving and then 3rd your in love ;; so I think it will last, and eventually she will be in love with you.
good luck!
2006-09-14 14:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confucius says: Woman with drowned cat have a wet p****.
2006-09-14 14:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you again,,,,,,,,there are different ways of loving someone...
2006-09-14 14:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gosh
2006-09-14 14:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by xsxsxsx36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
2006-09-14 14:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋