Was seeing a guy.....went great, lots of contact, got flowers, phone calls, texts....I was feeling pretty secure with the situation.
He's a "nice" guy, I know his family, and I dare say i was beginning to fall for this one.
So, He left a couple of weeks ago to be at school, as he's finishing up his last year...he'll be home every 2 weeks.
For awhile, he called and texted as usual, and our conversations were lengthy and fun....
Then it all seemed to stop. First, three days went by, and I figured he was busy, and called him. That was fine- things seemed normal....now it's been days again since that conversation. I called last time, so I feel like I should wait it out.
But each day that goes by, I'm doubting this whole thing, and I feel sad about it....
Should I start to accept that things are going downhill and move on? Should I call again, or wait for him to call me?
Since it's a new relationship, would it bother a guy, or seem desperate if I asked him why he isn't calling
2006-09-14 07:44:24 · 23 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could be really busy. Wait for him to come home and see how he acts around.
2006-09-14 07:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is still getting back into the swing of things at school....there is always so much to do at the start of the new year. Call and ask how things are going with him, let him tell what he has been doing at school, instead of letting your imagination run wild. If he was a good guy before no reason to think he has changed in this amount of time.
2006-09-14 07:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long distance relationship is very hard on both individuals and if you can make it through the struggles you are one up on most people. However, it is not normal for someone new in a realtionship not to keep more contact. I would not call him, and I would wait to see what happens. If he really likes you, and wants to spend time with you - you will know soon enough. Maybe he is keeping busy, but there is no reaon why someone can't spend at least 5 minutes to call and check up on their g/f.
2006-09-14 07:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by LaDonna J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait for him to call next time..then, just ask him how he thinks your relationship is going..does he think it's too hard being apart and still maintaining the relationship. If he's just busy - he'll explain..(meaning yes he wants to continue your relationship and don't fret if he only calls once or twice a week - and if you want more than that - then it's you that have to be honest and break it off)...OR it might be that he want's to break it off and doesn't know how. Your calmly putting it out there to be answered will be welcomed by him - and then he'll let you know that.
2006-09-14 07:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by garling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f i was in your feet, I would think he has got explaining to do and would not except I was busy. although you don't want to sound like you are worried about him cause then he knows and they like that and you need him to know he needs you. I think let the time fly by on his part and when he calls act as if you are busy and see if he acknowledges you are not wondering how he is at all. then go do your hair and let him know you are doing good and see if he reacts to your behavior. he's asking for attention.
2006-09-14 08:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by heigerandmyra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a really deep breath and take it easy. The guys' at school for crying out loud he's getting busy!
Over reacting?? I'd say, don't you have something to be busy with?? Like I don't know....having your own life so you're aren't so wrapped up in frivalous things!!!
2006-09-14 07:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's doing some moving on of his own. there isn't anything wrong with wanting to get some clarity regarding why he's not calling you, but think about this, "if you were in his shoes would you want you calling you if you decided to move on"
2006-09-14 07:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homegirl i think you should move on don't just hop into something because of texting or chatting any man can do that you need to be in it for time, don't call let him call you but don't sit waiting he could just be doing that purposely but who have time for that.either you in or you out ...Good luck
2006-09-14 07:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by sexychocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I gather from your question...hes in college right? Well if so...college is very busy and students get worn down from time to time. School just started...give it time to settle down. And if it still bothers you, talk to him about it....but when he comes home for a visit. Good luck.
2006-09-14 07:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by Julie W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋