Do guys ever fall for girls who are not so beautiful anymore????????Need help on this one.?

Question

Because I'm trying to look hard for my one true love and I keep waiting and waiting. But hardly any guy on this campus turns a head on me. It shouldn't bother me, because I don't want to look hot or anything. So, what do you think? Please be honest and serious now: how do I get a guy to notice me without trying to and without changing myself????????????

Answer 1

id say don't worry about it it will happan when you least expect it?? it allways happans that way. why do you think your not beautiful??? thiers someone out thier for every one . if you think negitive then people will think negitive. maybe you should go buy some cloths get your hair done or nails or what ever makes you feel special then maybe if your happy with your self. mr right will come along. it happand to me. i felt like you did then i changed and made myself more happy and then thats when it happand(lol) so good luck?? and dont worry

Answer 2

Unfortunately, Guys at that age are all about visual. So If your not pleasing to the eye it's going to be tuff. Actually, all men are visual creatures.You don't have to be Hot. You can be just you but , better. So go look in the mirror and see if there is anything you would want to do to look better. For yourself, and your happiness. And to get a guy.A few suggestions.
hair, restyle it. maybe color.contacts instead of glasses. lose 10 pounds if you think your overweight. Try some lip gloss, and mascara if you don't wear any make up now.And smile allot. If you have a constant little smile on your face , you will be more approachable , and guys will want to talk to you.

Answer 3

All the time. A great personality can add a couple of points to a person's looks, but sometimes you have to attract them to you long enough to give them the time to get to know you.

When you go fishing, you don't bait the hook with what you want to eat, you bait it with what the fish wants to eat. In the same sense; guys are attracted to women, BECAUSE they look like women. However most women dress for other women; to fit in with what is hip, or to not look out of place.

The problem the average, or slightly below average, looking women have is that they try to fit in with the highly attractive women that are trying to down play their looks, because they want a man that is interested in them as a person. For a highly attractive woman could wear a potato sack, and guys would still be interested in them.

You philosophy has you between a rock and a hard place, because you say you do not want to change, but you are not happy with your love life. However something has to give somewhere, or your love life will remain as it is.

Answer 4

It's not about "being noticed" - competing directly against the pretty girls will bring nothing but dissappointment.

It's easier to just go up to them and talk to them; it's faster, more direct, you can tell right off if they're interested or not so you don't waste time, and you'll go through a lot more boys than the pretty girls do before finding someone who's right for you, which means you'll have a boyfriend sooner.

You also avoid 90% of the drama.

Answer 5

In Dutch they say "every pot has a lid that fits". You get the drift, right?

Now I'd like to ask you how you want a guy to notice you without you even trying to get their attention? Hey, those were your literal words! And you are telling me to be serious? Who do you think you are? Do you think you are so special, smart and important that you don't even have to TRY to get someones attention? Girl, even Angelina Jolie works on getting people's attention! So stop being a wuss and for crying out loud, go out there and start batting those eyelashes at people.

Answer 6

I have the same problem. I would ask a question like this but for girls. I am a boy but not so beautiful and I don't have any girlfriend, although I want to have one. And now I stopped looking. And I wait. Life's go on. If it will apear a girl that I like her and she will likes me I would be very glad. If you want to talk with me on the Messenger my ID is Ciobotea_Andrei. How old are you?

Answer 7

even though looks shouldn't be the number one priority in any relationship, it happens to be. looks are the first thing that attracts a guy in in the first place and then they start looking at the more deeper levels like personality and what not. I guess maybe you could place yourself in a setting/environment where the guys may not be so look-oriented. if you go to a cheesy club your bound to meet jerks. its also great to start up a conversation with a guy you like because that way he can see what a great person you are.

Answer 8

I am sure you are beautiful, everyone is beautiful to someone, i don,t know what your weight is like but try not to eart junk food, men always look at nice figures. Its good for you as well and you will feel better. Wear nice clothes the more interest you take in yourself the more others do as well it shows you care about yourself. you must do as well because you are valuable, God said so.

Answer 9

well of course number one actr like yourself now this is an analysis if you don't mind me asking how do you look an just by me knowing that i may be able to help you guys of course we all look for the "dime piece" but guys lost the respect and the loyalty for their women now all guys do is have sex and cheat on the people they say they love don't change yourself but you will never get a guy to notice you if you don't try....e-mail me or im me if you want

Answer 10

Be kind, e honest, be yourself, many men will like and appreciate that. The best ones actually. If you want some heads turning toward you, maybe just ask. You might be surprised.