There's this guy that is interested in me, but i am having second thoughts because of some things he's mentioned to me. One that really has me concerned is the fact he seems to still be bitter towards his mother for letting him grandmother raise him. He says he loves her, but he hates being affectionate towards her as far as hugging and kissing her. He seems to be bitter also towards his kids' mother because when he was incarcerated, not once did she visit. His mother only visited once. SHould I run to the nearest exit.
2006-09-14 07:30:49 · 14 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't say run, but start backing away until you know more about this guy. For starters-why was he in jail-thats a red flag to me. He has kids-how many? Is he involved with them. Don't run but proceed with extreme precaution. It takes a while to get to know someone and it sounds like there is a lot more you need to know about him before you can make a decision on whether or not to date him.
2006-09-14 07:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by lady K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! His childrens mother was incarcerated!? and he has a bad relationship with his mother. Both are already bad signs. Sounds like this guy has woman issues
2006-09-14 14:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Astro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run Run Run! As fast as you can! this man has some deep seated dysfunctional issues with women. He needs therapy. Dont fall into the trap thinking you can "fix" him...just get away...and do it quick!
2006-09-14 14:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by amazinbabyfaceona5footframe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him than give him a lot of add attention. Don't be another one of those females that leave when things get hard. And he is right to feel that way to both of them.
2006-09-14 14:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
running away is not the best way. you see you might bump into another guy who talks you into believing that he is a great person, which he might not. but this guy he has at least told you or shown you what he really is. ONCE A WHORE IS NOT ALWAYS A WHORE.
2006-09-14 14:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by sofi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better you fly through the roof if Exit is not nearby.
2006-09-14 14:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by jk s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I would think so, this dude has baggage and you are going to be the one to pay, or just stay out of jail!! :)
2006-09-14 14:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by Jo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you already know the answer to this one.
2006-09-14 14:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-14 14:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run Run Run as fast as u can.
2006-09-14 14:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by sarge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋