well long story i been with this girl for about 6 years now we broke up i just saw her at the club last night i guess i drink to much i was hanging with her alot but she was with another guy he was ugly and fat and old. we love each other and miss each other i ask her y she miss me and she said she dosent know and y she love me and she said i just do. dumb of me i text messege her and said y the same q-tions she said same anwsers. i said is it someone else she said no then i ask her in the futur do u think we have a chance she said mybe. its so hard to move on with my life if any one help me plzz
2006-09-14 07:27:05 · 13 answers · asked by abcboyohboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i was hanging with friends she came to say hi and give me a hung and ask what im doing after the club i told her im going to the other club and she said ill see u there ****
2006-09-14 07:29:48 · update #1
Either be with her or don't - make a plan to talk to her about the situation. Decide from there. Be clearheaded and sober.
2006-09-14 07:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by ecmcr699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you love each other...ok, but what else?
Is there no SPARK between you? Are you a needy person?
Commitment problems stem from insecurities, and the fact the you were drunk and asking all kinds of ridiculous questions suggests that you have some holes in your boundary that need to be fixed.
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2006-09-14 07:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really care about her.Do you? And does she feel the same about you?These are some things you need to think about b4 getting back into a relationship with her.Why did you two break up in the 1st place? And are you willing to go though that same old same old all over again?
2006-09-14 07:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly settle down hun!! I hate the way that what you're dealing with feels despite if that's a ingredient of life and turning out to be as a guy or woman. If she enjoyed u then why the different guy? i think of that if u act as though she isn't there it is going to concern her yet u could make your guy or woman judgements 5 years is a protracted time yet there are different fish interior the sea. My heart is going out to you and good luck
2016-11-07 07:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the club WITHOUT her man, Take you mind off the woman. I assume you young and this is you first love, take a deep breath, kick it with you boys, go skirt chasing. I don't want to tell you this but she has moved on but she will regret it promise. when she's how easy it was to move on she will be back. she want to feel like she will alway have a place in you mind and body. she probably doesn't want to break you hear seriously......
2006-09-14 07:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by DOAnderson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe is not a good enough answer . Sounds like you love her but she hasn't made up her mind yet. Try not to be to pushy and see if she will call you now that you have made a attempt. If not move on.
2006-09-14 07:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by alasonlmc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude - grow up.
with her for 6 years????? are you crazy?
You are obsessed with her - let it go and move on. You have given her all of your power. Is that the man you want to be?
FP
2006-09-14 07:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her and she likes you back, why not try to make things work right this time, I say you for it! Good luck ^^
2006-09-14 07:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems she doesn't want nothing with you . so move on and get someone that does care about you....and after she see that she'll be all over you...try it!!
2006-09-14 07:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show up at her door with only a cowboy hat on... works everytime.
2006-09-14 07:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by balls_lips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋