Broke up with him that day until he got his stuff straight. My question is how can you get over someone lying to you for so long and he knows your past about how you have been done from other guys and he is just like them(dawg) He finally broke up with his girl moved into his own apartment which I am over there alot and has done everything that he could for me to trust him again. He denies ever having anything with the girl but I kept telling him it was something for her to act the way she did. This happened June of last year but it's hard to get over because I see this ugly girl everyday at work and I just keep thinking about what happened last year. I want to get past it but it's hart for me. People at my job tell me that the girl is messy and how some have heard her trying to plot something against me cause she wants my man even though she has her own. She says things around people she know that knows me so they can tell me what she says. What should I do about this?
2006-09-14 07:26:51 · 12 answers · asked by tnek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you cannot get over your past with this guy, then why stay around? Seriously? If you cannot move on things will never work out. People are entltled to make mistakes but you cannot make the decision to be a part of their life and punish them everyday for the past. Who cares what this girl says or your other co-workers say. One thing in life that never goes away is the way people behaved in high school. There are always people that want all the gossip and will fuel the fire just because they can. The more you let them influence you the weaker you are to make decisions for yourself.
2006-09-14 07:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by lady K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about it ask her what she has against you and then talk to your ex and say to him I like you and i want you back but you have to be 100 percent honest with me no lying or cheating and then If he does it again dump him and move on because if you move on then he will really realize that you mean it and if hes trying to be honest give him a try and if that girl gets in the way then you tell her look this is my man and you cant have him . you take your messy butt away from me and my boyfriend.
2006-09-14 07:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by sugarlump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me????. All that Bull **** and you are still with him, he knows he has you to do whatever he wants from you. Move on, the trust in gone and its never going to be back. Find somebody else that is worthy. Once a cheater or liar always a cheater or liar. Open your eyes or you are going to end up bad. Trust me I've been there nothing good comes out of it. Leave his *** NOW.
2006-09-14 07:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by lluvia2wcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Tnek, sometimes it's really had to get over things of this nature, but with time, you can. I experienced it and now i'm over. Forget about him completely due to the fact that your life is in danger posed by that other lady. Give yourself time, and don't rush to find another one in replacement This will worsen things. Think about other things so as to forget this prolem. eg you can go dancing, swiming,etc. If approached by another man, vett him completely before endorsing him cos you could land to another man of this nature. Contact me and i'm gonna give you my story and how i got over it.
2006-09-15 04:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by wagiothe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you keeping this guy? why do you keep choosing these type guys? there are better guys than this. honestly. to move on would be healthy. take a few steps back. give yourself some fresh air.
2006-09-14 07:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simon says "there must be 50 ways to leave your lover".
2006-09-14 07:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by chickenger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 work it out and b prepared 4 da worse, or do what i said b4, move on, goodluck.
2006-09-14 07:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like that girl is jealous if i were you i would try to ignore her ugly *** because she isn't worth losing your job over!! Pretend like it doesn't bother you and she should eventually stop when she see's your over it!!
2006-09-14 07:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-14 07:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by teddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋