I have been married and divorced twice. I'm only 29 years old. I have had boyfriends who have beat me, cheated on me, drugged me, belittled me constantly, stabbed me, just all around hurt me. Once I was pushed down the stairs because I was pregnant and he didn't want it. He succeeded in killing my baby. I have never had a man treat me with respect. Heck I once got arrested because one of these losers was a criminal. (I was released 6 hours later, without charges thank goodness) I have stayed single, thinking that's the way I want it to be, but now I'm feeling as if I want to start trying again, and how do I know if I'm ready. I want to trust someone, have a family, and a life, but I'm just kinda scared.
2006-09-14 05:58:30 · 11 answers · asked by real_sweetheart_76 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh I forgot to mention that one was charged with murder while we were dating 3 years ago and is still on trial.
2006-09-14 06:00:29 · update #1
Maybe you are looking for men in the wrong places. Either way, you may need to get some counselling. There are several ways to get free counseling. Have you tried a local women's center or maybe the local curch pastor? The easiest way to tell if a man will respect you is to look at his life and how treats his things and other people. If he loves his mom that is a pretty good indicator. It sounds as though your last men took everything for granted. I wish you luck and commend you on trying to prepare yourself.
2006-09-14 06:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Darin S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you fall for the wrong men. Take your time getting to know the guy first. Build a friendship. Good Luck.
2006-09-14 13:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ME♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn about the people u go out with before u go out
and try and see if that person looks like a criminal!!!
2006-09-14 13:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Snoop Dogg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It better to take your time and look for the right then being in an abusive relationship again. Good luck.
2006-09-14 13:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am looking 4 love and marriage I LOVE you will U marry me?please ?I will worship the ground you walk on !!
2006-09-14 13:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just jump into a relationship, scope it out for a while, but be carefu. Good luck.
2006-09-14 13:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to wear the pants sometimes in the relationship.If a man knows he can dog you out he will.Go to church and find you a good christian man.
2006-09-14 13:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need some time to urself to evaluate why you always end up in these situations. Please find a better bred of men
2006-09-14 13:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i think first you need to get better decision making skills
tea bag me?
2006-09-14 13:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn, you dont deservie it. Do you wonder why it keeps happening. Its time to get a new start.
2006-09-14 13:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋