Girls opinions prefered but guys if you have an input please say it. It just seems to me that girls prefer a guy who is "tough" and one who isn't reserved. I am a genuine nice guy. I treat girls with respect and like they're princesses. But I have not had a really healthy relationship yet and I don't know what I am doing wrong. Girls don't seem to be interested and I always see girls with low-life guys. WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN???
2006-09-14 05:54:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls like bad boys
woman appreciate the nice genuine guys
2006-09-14 05:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its how a guy understand what's the meaning of 'nice'. Nice means friendly, caring, a gentleman, and genuine. Genuine as in you are really like that. It looks so obvious when one is not and just doing it to impress a girl. Then that is not nice, and if one overdo it, it will look NEEDY. It looks like you are being nice because you are expecting in return. The thing with bad men is because they have no interest in the girl in the first place.. they just be men, or gentlemen.. there is no way he will be needy since he is not interested.. that what makes them attractive.. for girls. Be careful in being nice.. it might look needy.
2006-09-14 09:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Gable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have their own baggage, many women are used to the only men in their lives being that negative image therefore that is what they turn towards. Women are always leary of good guys like any day the other shoe will fall and they will see the Real them. Keep on doing ur thing God will send the right girl your way. Women always end up wishin they chose the nice guy ...
2006-09-14 05:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Christal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the guys I go for are both "tough" and "genuine". What I mean is in my boyfriends case, he wont tolerate guys hitting on and trying to get with me (however I DO HAVE guy friends and that's all they are and they know their bounderies) but in the same turn he treats me like his Princess (and that's how it should be.). He has NEVER took a hand to me though. He knows better, he wasn't raised like that. That's just the guys I go for.
2006-09-14 06:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I have had the issue of good or bad guys. I've had lots of bad guys in my time and I could have had good guys, but I have also been hesitant because the bad guys seemed like good guys at first and changed after a month or so. So for me, I have gone with the ones that seem like that is how they are going to be forever not just temporarily.
2006-09-14 06:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by bacardi_chick_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like tough guys but if girls want to get married they will choose genuine nice guys to be their husbands.
2006-09-14 06:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Esther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That’s a really good question. I’ve caught my self falling for the bad boy type and I think it’s because we want to be the one that changes them. But that’s terribly unrealistic and I find my self really falling for the nice guy with the sense of humor and a smile. So just be your self and all will work out.
Girls fall for bad Boys
Women fall for good Men.
It’s a phase and we grow out of it.
2006-09-14 06:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by lizlord89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls like bad boys....you seem quite genuine...look for someone whos the same. Good luck to you as well..you deserve the best
2006-09-14 06:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice guys are seen as just friends by alot of girls so i am a cocky kind of a hole and thats helps with getting girls girls dont know what they really want or understand how it works
2006-09-14 06:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by lztexan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls want a guy who can be sweet when needed to but other times be a bad *** it makes us feel safe and content you need to leearn to be sweet sometimes but others be a bad *** like we like to argue just to make up and sweet guys never want to argue or never get mad but when doing this we like you to keep your respect and not call us a ***** or a hoe its like sweet time is when its just you and her and other times you should act all big and bad but still hold her hand in public or around your friends hope this helps GOOD LUCK
2006-09-14 06:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋