2006-09-14 05:51:31 · 6 answers · asked by barnetgreek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good news - it doesn't matter! Okay, I know it feels as though it does, a lot, but... Think of this, you are probably going to have a LOT of first kisses in your life. You'll only have one very first, but every time you kiss a new person, it really is a "first kiss," because if you're paying attention, they're all different.
That said, my very first kiss was special. Not that the guy knew some unusual technique - it's just that he was really paying attention and didn't rush. He was totally focused on me, on that moment. He paid attention to my response and didn't press me faster than would be comfortable for me. It made me feel like the most fascinating girl in the world, at that moment.
When the time comes, don't rush. Focus on the other person. Kissing is one way of getting to know someone else, so take the chance to get to know the other person.
The "worst" first kiss I ever got was from a guy who was so nervous, he leaned past me and gave a gentle kiss to his car door by mistake. I laughed, and fortunately, so did he. We're married now, and his aim has improved immensely. What you're aiming for is to eventually kiss the right person, and when that happens, you'll know. Meantime, just enjoy it!
2006-09-14 06:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first kiss does come natural, if any thing will go worng it will but remember it was a first for every one. keep trying until you get it right. are it could be your first, but not the other person, so let them help, it takes two to kiss. oh just make sure you don't have bad brealth. and then put some ice in your mouth and go for it good luck!
2006-09-14 06:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it I think we all went through that. It comes natural and you'll do just fine. Good luck!
2006-09-14 05:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you? Maybe, you should be focused on something else besided kissing. But if you're old enough, you'll know when it's the right time. It will come natural. Don't let it be toooo wet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that's nasty
2006-09-14 05:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry and relax. Don't force it, especially if she doesn't want to. The only worry you'll have is her Dad.
2006-09-14 05:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no wrong way, just follow your feelings let mother nature
be your guide
2006-09-14 05:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by norsmen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋