Recently i have been having problems controlling my errections. I maturbate many times a day but it does not seem to make a difference. Sometimes i am late for work as i can not leave the house until it has gone down and sometimes if a girl sits next to me i cant stop it going and it can be very embarrising, esp as once it is up it will not then go away. Some girls noticed once but did not mind to much as they are good freinds and jus took the piss. other girls i think notice but dont say anything. It is very embarrising though and still hapens a lot, what shall i do? do girls find that really wierd?
2006-09-14 05:49:16 · 30 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Erections can come and go whenever they please. Just get yourself a big book or a tote bag to cover it up with if you are embarased. It's just natural - people shouldn't make such a fuss about it!
2006-09-14 05:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women could never understand this...so as far as their opinions go...forget about it....I believe growing up this was probably a problem for every guy at some point. I didn't even need to be thinking about sex when that shyte happened to me....totally random places. In any case I'd like to say you get over it..but I'm 27 now and still sometimes BOING! here we go again! So my best advise would be to either sit down until it is gone...or maybe taking a leak...your body does not allow urine to pass while you have an erection, so sometimes it forces it to go away. Thats the best I can do for now...I've been working on it for the past 15 to 17 years and still don't have it under control.
2006-09-14 05:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by tuffness9999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing your in HS. Well when I was in HS, I didn't even care to look at the pants of boys to see whether or not they had an erection. So I think that in many instances, most girls don't even know you are sporting one.
With that said, never wear boxers. Wear tighty whities and adjust "it" whenever the situation arises and you can. Point it north. Also wear large shirts that cover that area as well as baggier pants. I am sure you can have all that arranged.
Don't worry, as you get older, this type of stuff happens less frequent. You're just in that stage. Ride with the wave until it passes.
2006-09-14 05:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 07:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get good underwear that keeps yer snake in place and wear loose-fitting pants. Try to relax. The more you think about a h*rd-on, the harder it gets :) IMO, this is a perfectly normal reaction to the hormone OD you go through during puberty. When you're older, you'll remember and miss those days :)
2006-09-14 05:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off... It has nothing to do with thinking sexual thoughts.. for the girls reading.... it just happens for no reason.. your just going through puberty, your penis is like " look what I can do"
You will grow out of it, enjoy it, erections feel good, they feel masculinizing and healthy
Have comfort that in time you will get over this, in the mean time, fliping it up, so it points up twords my stomach, always made it go down, if you have the luxery to make that kinda move.
wear tight underwear that will restrict it's growth potential in your pants, wear baggy pants.
You can learn to conceal it
2006-09-14 05:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try having sex with someone rather than masturbating. if that doesn't work, go see a doctor. You might have some sort of blood flow problem down there. A hard on is just veins expanding over an increase in blood flow, so get that checked out.
2006-09-14 05:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by tobcol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u will grow out of it. It depends on your age, but i think most guys go through this at some point, and do get over it. Your hormones are just raging at this point, and it will get better! If not, and you are really worried, talk to your doctor. I am sure he has heard things like this b4, and will answer your questions.
2006-09-14 05:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by silver_daz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you. If you are between 14-20 years, I will say it a stage in life. You will grow out of it, But I will advise that you think more less of sexual activities. I think this will help.
2006-09-14 05:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls love it. They think that it is because of them therefore it makes them feel as if they "have the right stuff." Others see it as something that is offensive.
You will grow out of it, if not, I would seek a doctor.
2006-09-14 05:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by a_n_cassell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋