ok so i did it with my bf a couple times... does that mean my life is ruined?
2006-09-14 05:48:25 · 15 answers · asked by chscheer29020 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright dear, a couple things you need to consider here.
From the sounds of it, you are young and this was your first time having intercourse with your boyfriend. If this is so, I hope that you have taken into consideration the results that sex (doing it) has on a person/couple.
I have found that teenages seem to have the mentality that pregnacy will NOT happen to them, so when the heat is up, protection is not taken into consideration. "Pulling out" is not protection - pre-*** has sperm that can still get you pregnant! Plus there are HUGE chances of getting STDs...So, hopefully, you have used condom protection (and don't take that bull from the guy that they don't like them or they can't feel the sensations with them on... it's YOUR body. Make a stand. Don't be pushed into something that COULD ruin your plans in life, such as a career, traveling, etc. (It's hard to get those things done with a baby in tow).
If you didn't use protection, and plan on continuing your sexual relationship with your boyfriend, go to your location Planned Parenthood Clinic (it's free, usually) and get tested for STD's, and pregnancy. And also ask for some free condoms and research the option to get on the pill. They are very helpful and it is confidential. I would also bring your boyfriend with you - as a boyfriend, he should support you and also take the STD test.
Hopefully, everything is clear and you are not pregnant. However, from here on out, protect yourself and your future until you are in a committed/married relationship and are PLANNING for children. Don't let it be something that happens by accident - it's no fun. (I know - been there, done that as a teenager)
Take pride in yourself! If you feel you are ready for a sexual relationship - you MUST be responsible for what can happen and take precautions. (The guy doesn't care... so YOU MUST!) That is what becoming an adult is all about!
If you don't feel good about yourself now for having sex with your boyfriend, don't ignore the feelings and talk to him about it. Is it worth it? Now?
However, if you do feel it's the right time... enjoy it! But don't be stupid about it. Got it!? :) Now... go do the right thing for yourself!
I hope this helps! Good luck.
2006-09-14 07:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a bad thing if you didn't want to. If it was what you both wanted then why would you think it was bad? Either way, your life is not ruined, you sound young & have so much ahead of you. Make sure the next time it happens (or if you decide for it to happen again) that it is because it is what you want. And ALWAYS make sure you are safe!
2006-09-14 05:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by BettyBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 10:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be if you dont use protection.Finish school & get established before starting a family.Discuss with your doctor what type of birth control is right for you.If you use condoms,,use them the right way,,read the package.
2006-09-14 05:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no why would your life be ruined? if you didnt like it just dont do it again until your ready!
2006-09-14 05:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by connys1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did what
he he
just kidding
nothing is wrong and your life is not ruined
just try to limit on the deed and you will be fine
2006-09-14 05:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, your life is not ruined
2006-09-14 05:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Not your life....
2006-09-14 05:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you it the better it feals
2006-09-14 05:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no why the hell would it?
tea bag me?
2006-09-14 05:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋