if i go out with a guy and things seem ok. after the date he's suddenly busy or at events. he says he's not playing me but is he? i dont really trust him.
somehow before we went out he had a lot of time to speak to me regardless of being busy.
so if he is playing me, whats the best way to "get out" ?
tell him straight out u think he's a player, or just never talk to him again, even if he tries to reach you?
please help!!
2006-09-14 05:21:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, tell him you're busy.
2006-09-14 05:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you went on 1 date, then you can't consider him your man. Maybe you think things went okay, but they didn't. Have you guys established that it's a relationship? If you haven't then its probably not. And if your acting as if it is, then that's probably why he's busy all of a sudden. Guys don't like girls who act like what they have is more than what it is. You can't consider him a player because he's not your man. But on the other hand, if you two have established that its a relationship and have been together for a while then you are probably getting played and should keep it moving. If he does call you, don't even pick up. Now its your turn to be busy. And if he's really interested in you, he'll call more than once.
2006-09-14 12:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r in soup dear!!!! any relation b it friendship, love or anything else 4 dat matter i think trust is the base and u cannot build a home of ur dreams without this as a foundation....try 2 build up trust. give time 2a your relation let it grow do not force it 2 grow overnight....n try 2 communicate 2 him regarding ur feelings......be it negative or positive.....remember he is the same guy u liked initially n if he is behaving like this......try to talk it out.... ur feelings......wut r u afraid of ...u will be losing him any how if u ignore him so why not talk n then break up if it has to be like dat.....else try to communicate n spend quality time rather than quantity time....may be he is really busy??n even if he is showing n being smart just let him know he is not by talking 2 him.....do not run from a situation....face him...it is better to talk than repenting later n thinking about giving a chance or a try later on.... n remember he is a human being only he will not gonna eat u up 4 this....n later on u can b content n satisfied dat at least u did not give up n at least tried resolving things......there r two types of ppl one who just c wt is happening around dem, crib about it n do nothing....and other who think about a solution n work upon resolving it n who make difference in the life of ppl around dem n in their own lives as well.....take care......rest is ur decision i can only convey my feelings n show u d path.....u have 2 choose it n walk on your own........its ur life any wys take control of it in ur hands n do not let any one come n go out of ur life without ur consent......take care n all d very best.................
2006-09-14 12:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God frobid he may actually be busy. Sometimes we just can't talk and hang out with you every second of every day. Don't act so helpless go hang out with your friends if he is busy.
2006-09-14 12:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in that big of a need for a date. Get on with your life.
2006-09-14 12:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he "caught" you so the game is over. Another possibility is that he was not as attracted to you as he thought. My suggestion is get on with your life and dont wait for him. You want someone in your life who is HONEST with his thoughts and feelings, dont you?
2006-09-14 12:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't play any games.flatout ask him ,if he won't give you a straight answer move on. playing the ignore games doesn't make you any better. be real !
2006-09-14 16:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by buckcreekb2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him if he is not interested in a relationship the way you are - don't answer his calls, he will get the hint
2006-09-14 12:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by mick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start doing the same things that he is doing to you. he'll either leave you along or come around more
2006-09-14 12:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something, or someone, to occupy your time.
2006-09-14 12:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋