Ladies do u think its possible that some guys are better off alone?

Question

because im the silent loner type of guy and i dont desire to be with a women not that i dont love women i do i just dont want any relations with one does that make sense i like being on my own think a bout it im not missing out on anything relationship are stressful always fighting n arguing alwatys thinking about what the other person is doing when your not around i dont need that or want it the way i see it im the lucky one i dont need anybody to make me happy there people who go there hole life miserable thinking that if they find the right person they can fill the emptyness inside of them

Answer 1

If it works for you then hey, but what happens if you meet someone and that changes. That's what happened to a guy friend of mine. He always said he didn't want a relationship, but then met this one girl and fell in love.

Maybe at a different time in your life that will change. You can't say that you'll never want one, b/c you might be in a different place in like 5 -10 years and then want to be with someone then.

Answer 2

I think that it is possible for some people to want to be alone, but i also think that you cant make an informed decisions based on the experience and observation of others. Perhaps you haven't met the right person yet. I dont think you should rule it out completely, you need to experience something for yourself before you can decide whether or not its worth the trouble. At the same time you have to realise that sometimes people aren't looking for another person to complete them "or to fill the emptyness inside of them" but simply to have someone to witness life with, happiness is meant to be shared... if something great happened wouldnt you want someone to go home with who'd be genuinely happy for you? And not all relationships are bad, people are just too eager to get into them that they dont even get to know each other before making a commitment, i think that if you really knew someone well before you got into a relationship with them, there would be a lot less fighting because you would have chosen someone who is the closest to your personality. And trust is earned, knowing where someone is all the time is impossible, love & trust go hand in hand, and a great relationship has more pros than cons, which makes it so much worthwhile.... in other words, you have no idea what you're missing out on... dont give up on it just yet...
are u a virgo by any chance? my friend who is also a virgo had a similar view and hes 22 and he never had a girlfriend because he said he's fine on he's own, he recently entered into a relationship with someone who he's been friends with for almost 3 years, and he's said hes never been happier. So dont give up on it just yet...

Answer 3

Male or female, I think there are people who actually prefer and do better as a "single" rather than as part of a "couple". (I'm one of those myself...love men, but the whole 24 hours a day, 7 days a week...365 DAYS a year...for years and years...really makes me a little claustrophobic...)

The only place I have concerns for your decision is that you seem to think ALL relationships are stressful and consist of fighting and arguing. They're not ALL that way, really they aren't.

The only thing I 'd suggest to you is that you don't decide to NEVER get involved and NEVER be in a relationship based on what you've seen or the relationships you've been in. There are people who don't need to fight and argue and can be in a loving relationship.

You may find one of those someday, and I'd hate to think you've cut the whole idea out of your life.

If you don't find that person, I don't think there's anything wrong with enjoying being a "single" and feeling like you could do it indefinitely.

Good luck!

Answer 4

My husband is the same way, only he married me. It's making life extremely hard for me since I am the type who wants to share my life with someone else, nuture them and such. So do women a favor and don't get married. It is normal for some men and women to be alone. I don't believe that everyone is intended to get married. Sometimes I feel like being married hinders a certain type of individual from doing God's work anyway. In any case, like I said there are some people who aren't meant to get married because it is not for them...they are not considered selfish by any means. With that said, I think that you choose not to get married for selfish reason(s). Think about that. You want a life of freedom and freedom from "bondage" and stress. Yes, marriage is hard. In fact, it is one of the hardest job second to parenting probably. No one said it was going to be easy but it is totally worth it especially when both partners reach that point of becoming totally selfish to the other's needs, desires, etc. And you know what? My husband married me and sometimes he tells me that he wish he never got married. However, when he thinks about life without me, he realize that coming home to a big empty house void of life just sucks. There's no food on the table, no one to keep up with the bills, no one to clean the place or do laundry, no one to share his embarrassing moments with, no one to love, no one to pop the zits off his back, no one to celebrate his birthday with, no sex whenever he wants, no one to cuddle up next to when it is cold, no one to teach and show him love, no cute pink things hanging in the bathroom, etc. You get the point. Life just sucks without a woman.

Answer 5

WOW i agree with u, if U are happy by yourself then why force urself into a relationship that will make u unhappy however i believe that in time u might find someone who is worth all the negatives u listed in Ur question

Answer 6

Yea, some people are better off alone, and it sounds like you are that type. I am sure if you find the right person your views will change, U just haven't met anyone worth your time, and that's understandable!

Answer 7

I would agree with you about the whole "better off being alone" but honestly don't you think there's that one gurl who can make you feel like youve never felt before. All warm inside. Being alone sux!! Having someone with you Rules!!

Answer 8

ur in the some what in the right way u got the logic, but u can be alone entire ur life. now u dont feel problem. after some time u felt u lost some thing.

Answer 9

A person should never look to another for their happiness.

And yes, some guys and gals are better off alone. It's fine if you choose to spend your life without a significant other.

Answer 10

I think you may have been burned before too.
Take your time, clear your mind.
If a future relationship is supposed to work it will without any extra fighting & arguing.
Don't let temporary feelings of loneliness push into somewhere you don't want to be.
CT