okay, i've been with the same guy for a year, and im very happy with him. i was looking for some great ideas to show him that he's the only guy i want to be with. i think sometimes he doubts that i really want to be with him.(but i do!) i need some ideas, like make him cookies, massage, watch football with him.. that kinda of stuff. i need real ideas. please help (the sex is good, so dont say stuff like..ohh do it with him 20 times a day.) i need really good ideas! thanks! *
2006-09-14 04:58:44 · 10 answers · asked by verylostlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plan a vacation trip with just the two of you. when you are out there in the wild or another city or state, the only one he has is you, so he will only think of you. Take lots of pictures. So after a week vacation, you will be in his mind thinking that "She is the one" it is something like that in a guy head.
2006-09-14 05:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not like what I have to say but the following is a sincere answer to, what I perceive to be, a genuine question.
What is wrong with you???
Why do so many men and women want the general population to help them lie??? You want someone to tell you how you can change yourself (probably temporarily) in order to endear (fool) a mate into staying with you. This is artificial and NOTHING good will come of it. As a guy I have been the victim of this crap on several occasions. And, I'm sure I am not alone. Certainly, it has occurred on both sides of the gender barrier countless times.
Have you ever considered that a relationship is chemistry? If you are "yourself" instead of putting on an act the chemistry will occur. It will either fuse the elements together into a single unit or dissolve a weak bond that shouldn't have existed in the first place. Acting is like lying, it is hard work and requires a good memory. You must remember who you lied to and what lie you told them. In the case of acting you have to keep the various characters sorted out and only show particular faces to particular people. That sort of behavior is bad enough at work or in a social setting but why on earth would you want to deceive a person you profess to love?
So, be two real people (with all their faults) and let the chips fall where they may. A real separation is better than an artificial bond.
Now for the caveat: Please note I never said you could put on an act SOMETIMES. Acting out a fantasy is a hoot, just make it temporary, and spontaneous, i.e. don't develop a pattern . If you do it ceases to have any real impact. Stepping into a character sometimes can be fun, but trying to live an artificial life will stress a union until it breaks.
That's a guarantee!!!
2006-09-14 05:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Hey Edward, Im gonna call you at 4 AM. And I'm gonna ask for Bob. Just for laughs.
2) I think you already know the answer to this question. You know your guy. We don't. I think you should go do something with him that you know he loves, even if it's not your thing. Show him that you accept him for who he is.
2006-09-14 05:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are guys suck loosers, they make me look bad (refering to the one that accually put his number down) The best advice i can give, is find an interest in HIS hobbies, and do them together, if he watches football, and you usually dont, do it. Spend a whole day, where its all about HIM, and talk to him and tell him how much you love him.
2006-09-14 05:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
type following words on ms powerpoint or ms word document:
" YOU ARE THE ONLY GUY I WANT TO BE WITH.
if i stop acting that way, show me this picture frame "
have it nicely type out, use colours & decoration, framed it & hang it on the wall.
2006-09-14 05:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
call me! 830-775-8840 and ask for Edward but call at 8
2006-09-14 05:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy tht happens with every guy!!!! u dunt need to actaully prove ur love...!!! trust me....wen u try and prove ur love to guyz they think u acting but wen guyz do gals love it!!! sorry i m nt a guy but felt like answering!
2006-09-14 05:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Nat$ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont buy the cow if you get the milk for free.
2006-09-14 05:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the stuff u dont like and he knows that u dont like it when he is doing it. that way he will know u are going out of ur way to please him. he will appreciat it.
2006-09-14 05:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by letshavefun_while_its_last 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about...ALL OF THE ABOVE!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 05:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋