This guy really loves me but i won't go out with him because i want to be able to talk to other guys. Hes been tryin to get me to go out with him for a year and hes starting to give up even though i kinda like him i just want to be able to see different people. Recently he went out with this girl and made out with her. When I asked him where he was going that day he lied and said he was going with one of his guy friends and that made me kinda mad. So i want to see other people but i dont want him too! what do i do?
2006-09-14 04:54:57 · 10 answers · asked by kmichelle89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to let him know how you feel but tell him you want a open relationship that both can see other people. See if he will be able to accept that. If so express how important it is to be honest with one another. Tell him you really like him but you are not ready to be in one to one relationship. He might accept your terms and have a open relationship with you. The main thing you need to do is be honest with him. Tell him how important it is to be honest with one another.
2006-09-14 04:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want your cake and eat it too. So you can date others but he can't. How is that fair? If you want to be treated like number one in someones life that you have to treat them the same way. It sounds like you both like eachother so see if there is something there. He probably lied to you because he didn't want to admit he was with another woman. What if he asked you about another guy, would you be open and tell all? It sounds like you are asking for an unfair relationship and those never last or work out!
2006-09-14 05:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet when you were young you had a toy that you didn't really play with but didn't want to give it to someone who would. Same thing. You just want to use him. I bet you will find yourself being used by someone in the same way.
2006-09-14 04:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell him that you don't want to be serious and you want to date other people. If he doesn't understand that then you need to leave him alone.
He could get kinda crazy you know
2006-09-14 04:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should put everything behind u if u rly do like him and give him a chance...i mean if he really loves u than he will be truthful in a relationship im positive.....
2006-09-14 14:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by michael s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should mature a bit more before you try your hand at relationships. Right now, you think it's all about you.
2006-09-14 05:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grow up and walk away
2006-09-14 04:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls dont be selfish. let him have fun too
2006-09-14 05:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by letshavefun_while_its_last 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stick by his side if you like him ..
2006-09-14 04:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by G. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up...might help,some...
2006-09-14 04:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋