Guys how can you tell in a bar whan a man is attracted to you?

Question

will they always come up and speak to you or do some people men hold back. My ex keeps on starring at me when im ouit

Answer 1

Some guys are definitely too shy to come over and say something. If you're making eyes with the guy and flirting... and he just won't come over and talk... you CAN walk over and say something to him if you like him or think he's cute.

As for the ex, forget him. You're broken up for a reason, and whatever that reason is, it's probably a good one.

Answer 2

You ex is just keeping an eye on you to see what your up to. But in general a guy might offer you a drink with some conversation. But there are those that sit at the bar and stare at you through the mirror is there is one. Just take a glance at the mirror sometime and see all the guys that might be staring at you. As well as across the bar room you catch all kinds of guys giving you stares. That means they are interested.

Answer 3

nicely, in a lot of circumstances the guy is getting older on an same fee. As years bypass by employing in a courting, a deeper emotional connection replaces and more effective than compensates for a decreased actual charm, in spite of the actual undeniable reality that typically that actual charm can nonetheless be very good after many years. i have been married to an same woman for over 40 years. She's nonetheless alluring, not in basic terms in my eyes, yet fairly and that i'm nonetheless very physicallay interested in her.

Answer 4

When it comes to this issue it is not much different for men than women. Both sexes find it difficult to just walk up to the opposite sex and declare an attraction. It gets worse the younger the people involved are. This is due to a lack of experiance and a fear of rejection. So, you can't always tell when somebody is attracted to you. However a good sign is if they are always looking at you. If they were not interested they would not even bother to look. When somebody, male or female is interested, they tend to find their eyes roving to the person they find attractive, even when they try really hard to avoid looking. This is due to an involentary draw, a chemical reaction which demands our attention. We will always be aware of the one we are attracted to when in the same room together. Think of the many people you have been attracted to and remember how you just had to look at him, even when you tried to avoid it. It is normal for us to be pulled towards the attraction. Another way to know if somebody is attracted is to watch their body language. If they are currently not looking at you but their body is posed towards yours, then there is a good chance he is attracted. We tend to cross our legs in the direction of the person we are attracted to, to lean our bodies this way without any conscience thoughts of it. Another way to discover if a person is aware of us is this little trick and it really works!! When you are in the same room with the person you think is attracted to you, give a huge yawn. If he is aware of you he will yawn too! Have you ever yawned and then the person with you "caught" you yawn? I am sure you have heard how if somebody yawns the person with the yawner often will yawn against their will too. This is a sure sign that a person is at least aware of you and is consciencly or unconsciensly, responding to that awarness. I use to use this often to see who in my college classes was aware of my presense in the room. I was rather surprised sometimes at who yawned right after I did and who didn't. Sometimes it showed men who I had no idea even knew I was alive, they ignored me so well!!! LOL

So, place yourself in a room, not far from the man you are curious if he is attracted to you and yawn. See if he yawns after you. Watch his body movements, his body placement and if his eyes are continually drawn to you. If so then you can be reasonably sure there is an attraction and you can be eased in your mind of being rejected if you approach him to ask him out or even to begin the process by engaging him in converstation.

On an end note: If your ex-boyfriend is consistantly looking at you while you are both out and about, you can be reasonably sure he is still interested in you. Now, depending on the cercomstances of your breakup, this could mean a great deal of nothing at all. There are those who will break off a relationship in which they have reason to believe is no longer viable for whatever reasons, still have strong feeliings for the one they broke it off with, and still be attracted, still look, still position his body towards yours, but have no intention of following up on these emotions. There are those who understand it takes more than love to keep a relationship healthy and vibrant, and that if those things are not present will break up even if they still feel love for that person. It takes time for love to change to a lessor emotion, for healing to commense, for a person to move on. So, don't get your hopes up too high if he is the one who broke it off with you. Regardless of his still loving you he will not act on that emotion. Now, if you broke it off with him, have regrets, and wish to persue the relationship further, go for it. But don't forget the reasons why you broke up in the first place. Often we will be lonely and still care for a person we broke up with and in our lonliness we tend to only see the good from the past relationship and ignore the reasons behind the breakup. So forge ahead carefully, do what is right for you, what will bring you happiness. I wish you the best life has to offer, and a great day!

Answer 5

Maybe hes still interested and wants to know if you are too... so he looks to see if you are talking to any other guys. Good Luck On This!

Answer 6

well, I can tell when a guy is attracted to me in the locker room shower. I never realized how many guys found me attractive.

Answer 7

by the way he looks at you

Answer 8

they will stare at u if they are shy