how do i show her i love her?

Question

i've been with my g/f for 9 months. we don't live near each other, so it's hard to think of ideas on how to show her that i love her, instead of just telling her that i do. i need help on suggestions of what i can do/say to her, so that she knows i really love her and care about her. thanks for any advice.

i've been with my g/f for 9 months. we don't live near each other, so it's hard to think of ideas on how to show her that i love her, instead of just telling her that i do. i need help on suggestions of what i can do/say to her, so that she knows i really love her and care about her. thanks for any advice.


also, i'm a girl and im 17 and don't have a car right now, so i can't visit her. she doesn't have a car, either.

also, i'm a girl and im 17 and don't have a car right now, so i can't visit her. she doesn't have a car, either.

Answer 1

send her a note in the mail, flowers to work help, if you spend the night with her, when you take a shower write her a message on the steamed up mirror, it will disapear when the steam goes away and reapear when she takes a shower, i love getting those messages!

Answer 2

I did this long distance with my boyfriend for a while, until he moved back. Send her flowers, send her cutesy little cards and notes in the mail, send her gifts and special things just because. If you like to sing record her a song, if not send her a tape of a song that reminds you of her. Video tape yourself and send it in the mail to her so she can see you. Talk on yahoo chat with webcam, that makes things a little easier to deal with when you want to see that person and you cant. Send her stuffed animals, gift certificates, anything that shows you are thinking about her and that she is special to you. Maybe even pictures or photos of you in a picture frame. Send her little messages in email, etc. Hope that gives you some ideas. I'm sure you can build on those ideas and come up with some great ideas of your own, too! Good luck!

Answer 3

1 Listen to her, and remember her opinions (but don't use them against her later).
2. Tell her you love her regularly (like he said, every two days).
3. Flowers still work well. But don't over do it re: size, usually. Try one rose of a cool color (the florist will throw in some greenery for balance). Then a few weeks later send one carnation (they last forever, well, a couple of weeks, if tended to). Then one star lily (one of my favorites). Then etc, then start over, and mix it up. Football Mums, etc., ask your florist what can look good as singles in a simple arrangement. After the first one remember what she seems to like the most. Then use that for a corsage for a date later on. Remember the colors she likes, not the ones you like. If it helps, take notes.
4. For a bigger occasion that you can't attend, call her local DairyQueen, and have them deliver an ice cream cake (if she likes ice cream, and who doesn't).
5. Go to your local stores and find an inexpensive, interesting, crazy hat, and UPS it to her (you'll need a box).

Just think of nice things to do for her that can be done from a distance, plan them out ahead of time (you'll need to know addresses, and room mate or family schedules), and do them.

Give her every opportunity to think, and maybe say "You remembered!". When you hear that, you know its working.

You may NOT want to sit bare assed on a copier and fax it to her, or photograph your privates for her. She may not consider that romantic. And others may find the pictures and form negative opinions of you.

Answer 4

Take a personal day at work this Friday, and go down to see her for a surprise visit. Maybe even deliver flowers to her at work in person (if that's possible - if her boss or place of work would be okay with it). Maybe you could even let her boss or co-worker in on the surprise, so you can take her out for a long lunch. And spend the weekend with her. Perhaps consider getting a hotel room nearby just for one night to make it extra special.

Answer 5

A simple card in the mail. A small teddy bear in the mail isn't expensive to mail.Telling her you thought of her at a certain moment (something you saw reminded you of her or a certain occasion with her.Women just want to know you think of them often and you miss them.Good Luck. Sounds like she got a good one.

Answer 6

Say "I love you" at least once a day. Give her flowers eventhough there isnt any occassion. Be with her when she needs you to be. Dont be too clingy though or she might think you are obssessed about her and you would end up being used.

Answer 7

Send her flowers to her work do things Thatt's out tha ordinary things that she won't expect. visit her as often as u can. call her when u get some free time, write her a letter so she will know u took time to tell her instead of just letting it come out your mouth. buy her things and send them to her. such as perfume a dress/skirt, just to let her know you are thinking about her.

Answer 8

Send her flowers, but most of all don't forget to visit her. Kiss her and DO tell her you love her. That's the best.

Answer 9

write her a poem, trying calling the radio station and dedicate a song to her(be sure to call her and tell her that she needs to tune in to it) show up(if u can)unannounced on her doorstep with flowers or and candy

Answer 10

since you dont live pretty near.....you could call her or msg her sumtimes...you know...like outta d blue...or send flowers to her place with a sweet card....trust me, its the little things that matter.... btw, the fact that you've posted this question, shows how much you luv ur g/f....n u no wot, im sure she knows it :)....