If someone says that they care about you and they show you that they do and they're always there for you and you in your heart feel that it is more than sex...is it? Does this change if the man is married? What if the man got back with his wife for just the kids and everyone around you knows this and is telling you this then what do you do? How do you explain your feelings to a person in a situation like this?
2006-09-14 04:22:35 · 6 answers · asked by Miss Bank$ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you and him really know if he cares for you or not, and how much. Kinda hard for us to judge that.
Being a married man, though, adds a whole new spin on the situation. If he is back with his wife and kids and trying to work on that relationship, I hate to say it, but it seems like a lose-lose situation for you.
You need to either be ok with a sex only relationship or let the guy go. It shouldn't be hard for you to tell him how you're feeling...just be straight forward and lay it all out there. You will get the answer you are looking for and feel better after the fact.
2006-09-14 04:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by shorty tacos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I hate to say it, but you have no future with this man. He obviously cares for you deeply, but if he has gone back to his wife for whatever reason, you will only get hurt if you continue the relationship. It must be hard for him too, and it is difficult for a man to give up his family. If you love him, respect his decision and stay away from him. If he contacts you, you should say 'no' as long as he is with his wife, and ask him to let you go. I have been there too, and I know how hard it is, but more so if you continue this affair. Good luck.
2006-09-14 11:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very difficult situation.
I understand you. You are in love with him and he is loving you too. But there are his kids, that he loves more that himself.
Your love will go away if you guys always have this obstacle - his family. Sooner or later you will get tired of this. I think that you should discuss this very seriously. You want him, you want stop him for seeing his kids. They always will be his babies. But if really wants to be with you, he should consider some actions.
Talk, talk and talk until you reach a decision that will satisfy you both - that could be only a divorce for him and a new life with you.
=)))
2006-09-14 11:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by pipilota75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from married men.
This is seriously not healthy for you... and even if you don't care about his wife... think about his kids too. If he's like this with them, what do you think he's going to do for you in the long term?
This isn't "love." He's using you.
2006-09-14 11:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE when stupid women come on here b****ing about their affairs with married men. They are NEVER going to leave their wives for you, no matter what he or anyone else tells you. Leave them alone. Find someone who isn't married and get on with your life.
2006-09-14 11:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg---not another -one...get a clue....find your-self a single man....get real......
2006-09-14 11:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋