She says I'm not the right guy but every time I ask her why she makes an excuse and walks away?

Question

She won't answer me but she still txts me and calls me. what's the deal?

Answer 1

I know it's hard but don't drill down on it. Girls are not like guys they will not tell you the real reason. Don't worry, whatever it is it may be something someone else is dying to find!

Answer 2

She wants to keep a friendship because she cares about you as a person, but she knows that you are not the one for her. What your asking is not an easy answer, its not a physical thing or even a caring and loving someone thing. Its in her heart, she can feel it all around her that the two of you are not the ones ment for eachother. There is a woman right for you, and to some degree it can't really be easy for her either to admitt that. But she does still want a friendship with you because she does feel a friendship closeness to you, she just isn't in love with you the way two people are when its ment to be. You want it to be 'ment to be' with her, but life doesn't work that way and neither does she, or you for that matter. A friendship can be beautiful and it sounds to me like maybe you and her started out that way in the begining. Find your own understanding in this and persue other girls. Keep the friendship with her, you will both need eachother from time to time and you will appreciate eachothers company and friendship more then you ever would have in a lovers relationship. BLessed be.

Answer 3

The deal is that your a sucker for her and if you continue taking her calls she knows that she can continue to play with you. Your letting her know that is ok to not answer you when you ask the question. If you let her know how you feel about everything and she still doesnt answer then I suggest you start walking away and not answer her texts or take her calls until she can grow up. Sometimes that is what it takes for her to come around and then again maybe she wont. You just have to be strong enough to keep going.

Answer 4

She likes you and perhaps had feeling for you at one time. Now she justs wants you but not the boyfriend / girlfriend thing. This is complicated. I went through this with a friend and she and I did everything together but she was takin her p*ss somewhere else. We never dated. I was her emotional boyfriend. She was physically attracted to me but thought that I didn't like her body. (she was totally a hottie) Anyway, long story short, I got married to someone else. She was angry and never expressed her feelings. Do yourself a favor, don't ask again and find a new friend. The pain that all of this will cause is not worth the trouble. She wants all of what you have but does not want to gradify you. Wean her off the friendship and find a woman that will express her feelings for you and put out.

Answer 5

Maybe she is scared . She is trying to pull away. No one has ever liked her the way you do and Let her know if you are not the right guy then to leave you alone. Do something really nice for her. Good Luck

Answer 6

She wants to be friends. She is txts and calling because she enjoys your company. She just doesn't have romantic feelings about you. Maybe she isn't even sure why not.

Answer 7

Cant a women spend time with a guy without wanting to be his gf or wife ?? She likes hanging out with you but your not the right guy to make a commitment with. That's all.

Answer 8

Sounds like she in not interested in having a romantic relationship with you. She wants to be your friend. She is not wanting to say that she is not attracted to you in that way, because she probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

Answer 9

maybe shes scared and nervous give her some time shell come around try to talk to her more often get to know her more hope that helps if u need more help email me any time

Answer 10

If she's not interested then move on. I think she thinks your a nice guy and wants to be your friend but doesn't want to date you. Good luck!