am sick of him calling i dont like him bt i dont wana hurt him... he is more than in love with me its like an absesion help??? he is really buging me calling at like 3 in the mornong not leting me sleep!!!
2006-09-14 04:02:15 · 29 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
turning off the phone will not work he knows wher i live my house number , where i work my work nuber, where i kick it with my friends and their phone numbers, and i dont want to hurt his feelings..
2006-09-14 04:06:49 · update #1
You are going to have to hurt him. There is really no way of getting around it!
He is disrupting your life & pretty much hurting you, even though he may not be physically hurting you, he sure is doing it emotionally.
Soooo, who cares about being the bad guy here! What if he starts to turn into a psycho & wants to hurt you?! What are you gonna do then?!
It happens all the time!! Trust me, this guy definately has stalker potential! And that is VERY dangerous!
Be firm & be mean if it is necessary! But we are talking about your safety here, so do what has be done! Just say "I don't like you that way & the more you call me, the less I like you! So stop calling! especially at 3 am! Damn!" Good Luck & please stay safe!!
2006-09-14 04:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you answering your phone at 3a in the morning. I think it is thoughtful of you to consider his feelings, however, a girl needs peace.
Advice:
1. get caller ID - never, ever, ever answer a phone call blind!
2. only answer the phone when you want to talk - if you don't want to talk, don't answer the phone!
3. if you want to keep him around (and you think he's safe) but just want him to stop calling so much - stop answering so much and don't call him back - I mean for weeks at a time
4. if you don't care whether you ever speak to him again - never answer his calls and don't ever call him back - he'll eventually get the hint
I hope you know the basics
- like never, ever give a guy your home phone number - only a cell or fake # (if you don't like him),
- and don't let him know where you live, until you know he's safe and not crazy (you don't want to get stalked)
2006-09-14 04:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Neenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn your phone off at night so you can sleep. Call the cell phone company and change your number. You can get a restraining order and then he will be subject to arrest if he tries to contact you. Thats drastic but he will get the message when they cuff him and put him in the police car.
2006-09-14 04:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by BECB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. He should hear the truth before it gets even more out of hand. I actually had a similar problem to this. I just told him about it and said I really love talking to him but I am very busy, etc. Good luck! Oh, I wouldn't completely stop talking to him either, that'd crush him. But tell him to tone things down a bit, but in a nicer way then that, haha.
2006-09-14 04:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dayzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you need your space and to back off. If he doesn't stop after that, you might want to block his number. Don't worry about hurting his feelings. He'll get over it. I've had this problem several times before, and believe me, being nice does not work.
2006-09-14 04:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with this one. First try not answering the phone, if he persist, get his number blocked. If anymore comes out of it, get the law involved, some people are just plain crazy and will take it further.
2006-09-14 04:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 08:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not getting the picture maybe you need to be mean. Let him know that you are not interested in him and that he needs to stop calling you or you will change your number. If he still doesn't get the picture I would change your number. And if that doesn't deffer him you need to take further action.
2006-09-14 04:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called harassment, you can talk to the police about it. Especially if he IS obsessed! There's no reason you should have to deal with it. Or change your phone number and get it unlisted.
2006-09-14 04:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont answer your phone. Shut it off. Tell him your not interested and would like it if he stopped calling you. Then just ignore him. Sounds like a stalker to me, so be careful.
2006-09-14 04:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋